I have a question that is not sewing related. Those of you who have cats, specifically female cats, do your girls howl at all times of the night? Since my husband has allergies we do not allow our cats in the bedroom. Sissy howls at our door, sometimes at assorted times during the night and sometimes at 5 or 5:30 when I am usually waking up. We have to lock her in the laundry room on the other side of the house, with food, water and potty of course. My last female did the same thing. Sissy's brother is my first male cat and he does not do it. He only meows at me when the food bowl is neat empty as he hates to see the bottom of the bowl no matter how much food is still in it! Hugs. Nan W
If I go downstairs without them, both my boys will sit in the stairwell and cry, unless I tell them they can come, then they're both down the stairs and through the door faster than jackrabbits.
If I go to bed at night, and they are asleep somewhere and don't know, they will wake up and cry until I call out and let them know where I am.
One of my boys, in particular, is very sensitive to the other occupants in the house. When our Spanky was ill and having to be fed special food, we would lock him in another room to eat, and Tao would sit outside the door and cry when he knew Spanky was ready to be let out. If ever Spanky was accidentally locked downstairs, Tao would sit at the top of the stairs crying until one of us went down and let him in.
He does the same thing now when the cat from next door comes up our (outside) back stairs, he will keep going to the dining room doors and cry out until I acknowledge that Mojo is there. (Mojo only has three legs and, although we love him and feed him whenever his owner goes away, which is often, we don't let him come inside, but Tao understands he is special so always tells me when he is upstairs.)
Tao also cries when his daddy goes downstairs, until I talk to him.
Cats are not the uncaring, unemotional, cold-hearted, animals the so-called experts make them out to be, especially if they have been brought up by loving humans who have talked to them and treated them as more than just a pet.
It's a shame your hubby is allergic to cats because the only answer I can suggest is to let him in with you.
We had very hot weather this summer and I was sleeping on a camp bed in the lounge room with the air con on. Each night one of our girls would come in and howl at me as though to say "why are you hiding here?"
Tell your cat that your husband cannot have her in the room of a night, but you will see her in the morning and she should calm down.
One cat we had, became frantic when I wasn't home from work by sundown. Had to 'explain' to the cat that the sun was going down earlier, but I was still coming home at the same time each day. It was his first winter :-)
To explain to that cat - I had to hold his head making him look at me otherwise what I was saying didn't sink in as he would be distracted by what was going on around us. I do not need to do that to the current cats.
Like kids, I think it is a personality thing, not a sex thing.