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by toogie 23 Mar 2017 ( edited Mar 24'17 19:33 )
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Cuties here's a story for you.<br /><br />

As a few of you already know, my husband does things in his sleep, at least he SAYS he is asleep when he hits me.-lol<br /><br />
Anyway, I want to tell you about my husband the other night. <br /><br />
He goes to bed before I do, most of the time. About 2 nights ago, I was about to get into bed when he hollered out and started loudly clapping his hands, about 4 times, too. Scared the weeby-geebies out of me! I hurried up and got my IPhone so I could record him.(I need proof) <br /><br />
Well, the room is too dark, for a good recording and I didn't want to wake him, by turning on the light. I filmed anyway, because he kept fidgeting with the covers. He is left handed, but his right hand never went completely down on the bed. He then slowly raised it and began to point straight at me! He kept working his pointed finger back and forth real slow and trembley (is that a word?).<br /><br />
I really kind of began to get frightened as I had never seen this performance before. He shouted out one more time and my storage was full on my phone.<br /><br />
I will say this lasted about 20 minutes and I sure wasn't going to bed now! I also thought about a show I had watched where one time a guy got up, in his sleep, and killed his MIL....oh my! I went right then and locked the gun cabinet and hid the key....now where did I put it..... oh well.<br /><br />
Some time later, I thought, he is settled down so I'm gonna try and wake him. I woke him up and asked if he was alright.....I remember my dad used to say the nurses would wake him and ask if he had trouble sleeping. He said sure he did, they kept waking him and asking dumb questions....oh, I got off track...<br /><br />
He answered and said yes, why?..WHY? I WANTED TO SAY...well, I told him I was about to cry after seeing and hearing him in his sleep. I told him what he had done.<br /><br />
We both laid there awhile and he started telling me he had been dreaming. He said, his daddy and him were hog hunting. He doesn't know why he was on the ground, but the hogs were coming toward him. He was shouting and clapping trying to turn them away from him. <br /><br />
I said you kept pointing too, straight at me. He said he was trying to show his daddy which way they went!-<br /><br />
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If I don't have enough going on during the day, I am now hog hunting at night!-lol- <br /><br />
I don't know why, but this started about 10 years ago, when we took a trip. At that time he shouted so loud, his cousin's husband came to our room to check and see if we were alright. He said he used to never dream. He blames it on his blood pressure medicine (have you e-v-e-r ). Anyway, I'm glad to know he's dreaming and not going crazy or possessed.-lol-<br /><br />
Just another day, or night in this case, in my crazy corner of the world. Hope you had a good laugh.....now where did I put that key.........Toogie

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by mlbell70 23 Mar 2017
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that would be scary
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
It did make me wonder how he could still be asleep, after clapping, I mean loud too, and shouting. Turning on the light may not have awoken him either....did make me feel quite uneasy at the time. Today, in the light of day as I related it to my grown grandson, we had a laugh. At the time it was happening, wasn't so funny. I didn't know to try to wake him during it or just watch out for myself and make sure he never got up and hurt himself some way. The mind/subconscious sure is complicated/complex.
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by marianb 23 Mar 2017
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I'm glad it was only a dream. Maybe this is something that should be told to his Dr at the next visit.
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
I think so too but this time he remembered he was dreaming. I used to dream all the time, not so much anymore, probably because I don't sleep much. He said he never dreamed until recently.
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by michemb 23 Mar 2017
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Never a dull moment lol. I have a BIL who sometimes does crazy things in his sleep. He was once found walking down a major highway in the midddle of the night. Lucky for you he stays in the bedroom
hugs
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
My BIL got up one night and milked the cow in his sleep! I think his daddy found him opening the gate, on his way back and brought him back to bed. We used to lock our camper door when we went camping with an extra lock, because our daughter would get up and sleep walk. I was afraid she would go to the creek and drown. So far as I know DH hasn't walked so for knowing that I can sleep better.
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by lbrow 23 Mar 2017
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You got a smile out of me this morning Toogie./Lillian
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
Good! I'll bet you needed one. I wondered if anyone else encountered this as they got older. I know this guy can sleep a lot. He sleeps/snores all night, gets up in the morning and sleeps 2 to 3 hours in his recliner....I can't even sleep more than 5-6 hours and no naps during the day or I won't sleep.
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by jrob 23 Mar 2017
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In your best Rod Sterling voice: There is a fifth dimension beyond that which is known to man. It is a dimension as vast as space and as timeless as infinity. It is the middle ground between light and shadow, between science and superstition, and it lies between the pit of man's fears and the summit of his knowledge. This is the dimension of imagination. It is an area which we call the Twilight Zone.
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
The music : do da do do, do da do do.....That was one weird show alright....Did you ever think of becoming an actress? You sure can remember lines well.
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by pennifold 23 Mar 2017
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What a wonderful life you lead Toogie! he he he! Never a dull moment in your household. I do hope Hubby is o.k. after his night terror! Love Chris
P.S. Make sure you remember where you put that key!
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
HIS NIGHT TERROR! WHAT ABOUT MINE?-lol- I babysit kids during the day and him at night, on a hog hunt at that!-lol- His daddy was born 1903 and has been dead for years. A long time since he went hog hunting with him. Makes you wonder why we dream, uh.
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by dragonflyer 23 Mar 2017
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It would be a bit scary...don't find that key too fast!!
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
Oh I didn't like seeing him like that, but I have found the key. It's in my old treadle sewing machine.
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by graceandham 23 Mar 2017
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At least you didn't wind up hog-tied. Maybe a sleep study is in order. Ask the doctor.
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
I guess I really need to.
That would have been scary, if he tied me up. You know a man is so much stronger than a woman and when they don't realize what they are doing......can I come sleep at your house?-lol
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by kathymourie 23 Mar 2017
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Oh Toogie, please be careful. Don't find that key... You live a very exciting life. lol
xoxo
Kathy
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by toogie 23 Mar 2017
Talk about having to sleep with one eye open.....I put the key in my old machine, so now if I can't find it, I'll check this post.
Some excitement our hearts can do without.lol
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by pacmp 23 Mar 2017
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Toogie- as suggested your husband needs a sleep study done. The snoring is one sign the need for naps in daytime is another the chances are his oxygen levels are getting low causing the snoring, snorting, tossing sheet grabbing and his oxygen may even be low in the daytime causing tiredness unless it is only his not getting enough quality sleep at night. etc It is strange after our whole marriage of him snoring that now he lays still and not a snore all night, so it was an adjustment for me. The medication could possibly also change the sleep, give nightmares, if the nightmares and vivid dreaming only started after he started the medication but they may stop just getting his oxygen levels up. I live it too, but thankfully once they gave my husband the sleep mask he calmed totally at night except that he was in Iraq just before the war broke out and during those first really terrible months and lets just say it was terrible and they attempted to take him and other fuel truck drivers hostage, thankfully after the violence, you do not want to know, they eventually made it back to base, so we truly live with the night terrors and assailants attacking him. Some reason they only attack from the other side of the bed so I have not been attacked but because it can be scary you really would not need to do much more than talk to him and he would wake up then going back to sleep they don't usually start up a same dream, hope your husband does not, Denny generally does not though some nights it will start another different dream later in the night so have worked to try to limit the triggers if there are things but does not sound like your husbands would be triggered type experiences unless he was hog hunting recently. I also can lay my hand on his hand and call his name calmly not in a panic he does tend to be startled by that but I just say hes dreaming and he's home and safe and he needs to go to sleep and have better dreams. Denny has had blessings through our church priesthood, to help with the PTSD that has helped him a great deal, if the dreams are at all worrying to your husband and if your faith has something similar, it is worth giving it a try. It is wise to lock the gun cabinet if he walks etc in his sleep. I know how carefully I monitored Denny's mental state to know if the guns were Ok in our home. Definitely were under my lock and key for several years though my fear was not what he would do at night while asleep but while he was awake coping with what they had endured. 2 of those men did end up choosing suicide. So grateful your husband could tell you he was on a hog hut. Who knows what triggers long past memories.Could simply be a time of year a same chill air or absolutely nothing what so ever. Since it scares you, then after the sleep test I would calmly wake him when he goes into those aggressive dreams so he can hopefully stop at least the upsetting part of the dream as it is not restful to him and totally reeked havoc on your sleep to say the least- I am one to say stop it by waking him as soon as something seems to be stressful either to just him or yourself. Hope more restful night will soon become your normal. Pam
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Pam, I am sorry to hear that your DH, Denny, has PTSD. There are so many dealing with this. Thank him for his service.
What scared me was, him not knowing what he was doing. I am glad he was able to recall his dream though.
I hope things get better for you and Denny.
by sewtired 25 Mar 2017
So sorry to hear of the difficulties you and your DH have been through. I pray things are getting better for you too.
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by babash 23 Mar 2017
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You most certainly need to tell your Doctor about this. It may sound funny but what if it is so real to him he hurts himself or you badly.
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Lets hope nothing like that happens and we will mention it at his next visit. Thank goodness it doesn't happen too often.
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by gerryb 24 Mar 2017
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I was reading alone...then I get to where he's pointed toward you as to where the hogs went! I lost it! Just hope I didn't wake MY hubby that goes to bed several hrs before me! But he doesn't hunt hogs, thank goodness!!! Love the tales you share!! Yes, your life is never boring! Hope you weren't to worn out this morning from all the hog hunting last night!!
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Now whose laughing-lol-so he thought I was the hog, you think-lol-lol-
He may not do anything for awhile now, or it may be tonight, you just never know.
I just wonder if its safe to wake them during their dreams....
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by sewdoctor 24 Mar 2017
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It really could be his medicine....My husband has lots of bad dreams also, and I believe it is one of his meds..
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Maybe, but he didn't say it was really a bad dream.... just the way hunts go.
by sewdoctor 24 Mar 2017
Perhaps, BAD dreams was extreme, but, strange vivid dreams, dreams that leave him slowly. I am probably not explaining that well....
by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Oh yes, I understand, you mean they seem so real. He was surprised he remembered what he dream. Now maybe if I would have waited until morning to talk to him, he may not have recalled, so I'm glad I woke him after he settled down.... I know if you wake my SIL, he comes up fighting, that's why I didn't want to wake hubby during whatever was happening.
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by katydid 24 Mar 2017
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Oh my !!! I must sleep on this before I answer. Kay
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
I hope you have peaceful dreams!
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by sewtired 24 Mar 2017
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What a fascinating post. I do hope you check with his doctor. My DH has not frightened me like that, but he does make the strangest sounds at night, He snores and snorts and whistles and more. He went for a sleep study and they didn't find anything wrong. I just keep a pair of earplugs by the bed now, so they are handy if he wakes me up, so I can get back to sleep. I hope you stay safe.
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Thank you me too. My husband snores, snorts, puffs,whistles,too but he says now I snore ( is it contagious or did he just teach me well?).
When I use to work I would complain to my co-worker the nights I couldn't sleep b/c of his snoring. She said one morning the paper headlines are going to read, "Husband Dies From Snoring" because wife smothered him with a pillow!-lol
by sewtired 25 Mar 2017
Oh, I know that I snore as well. I have lots of sinus problems and have occasionally awakened myself. It's definitely not just a guy thing. However, I don't believe I have the full repertoire of sounds that he makes. I'm glad it hasn't come to smothering him with a pillow!
by toogie 25 Mar 2017
Me too, its kinda nice having him around......most times-lol
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by awesome1 24 Mar 2017
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That's a funny styory, but a bit scary too. My DH did similar caused by BP meds until I demanded the dr change them. We were in a new home, not completely finished--the basement steps not installed yet. I caught him just as he opened the door and was about to walk thru into space--and a concrete floor below. So I have an idea how you felt! ,
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by sewdoctor 24 Mar 2017
YIKES...glad you caught him!
by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Oh my! I just told my husband about yours. I too am glad you caught him. As far as I know, he's not getting up and usually I wake up when he goes to the bathroom.
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by kustomkuddle 24 Mar 2017
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That brings back memories. Within a couple weeks of being married, I awakened to my husband sitting up in bed and pushing at me. When I tried to sit up, he pushed me back down and yelled "Mother! Put that gun down!" A few minutes later he laid down and was asleep. Sure made me wonder what type of family I married into. lol. He still swears to this day that this did not happen! He ended up with sleep apnea and wears a mask at night. He still talks in his sleep but not the crazy behaviors.
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
That would gave me second thoughts about the family too-lol-He probably would benefit from a mask at night but he would most likely be like my SIL and not wear it half the time. Men
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by lucypiwow 24 Mar 2017
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YUKS..DONT FIND THE KEY..I WOULD BE SCARED HAVING GUNS IN THE HOUSE.CAN THEY NOT GIVE HIM A SEADITIVE.YOU SURE HAVE AN WILD NIGHTS...
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
JUST BECAUSE YOU GET OLDER CAN'T MEAN YOU WON'T STILL HAVE EXCITING NIGHTS- LOL- I WOULD BE SCARED WITHOUT GUNS IN THE HOUSE LUCI- HE CAN'T GET THEM i HAVE THE KEY IN A SAFE PLACE
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by gerryvb 24 Mar 2017
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well I can imagine this is scary....were you able to sleep after this?
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by toogie 24 Mar 2017
Oh yeah, once we talked and I knew he was ok....I don't think he did though after I told him he kinda scared me.