Hello Cuties, I wanted to show you different things that a woman was going to use for rags, until I told her NOT to throw them or cut them up, until I looked at them.
I wish a hundred times over that I would have taken a 'before' photo. They were so dingy/dirty and all stained up.
Well, look at them now! They are all hand embroidered and one is crocheted edging and corners. Notice one small place, on the left side of the first picture, the edging is bad. Other than that this one is okay.
I love the one in the 3rd pic. It is also the 4th close-up. Some of you that embroider by hand, what stitches are the blue on the basket? I put that tablecloth, on one of my small tables.
The pansy baskets in #5-7 are all different colors. In 7 is the back of the stitches.
The last 4 items didn't hold up as well. #8 a tablecloth with moth holes. #9 and 10 are pillow covers or cushion covers. The last, #11 a runner was a beauty I am sure at one time. It came apart at the hem stitching and some of the insertion lace is torn up. Of course, you can see the holes in it too.
When I got them I thought they were all an ecru color, as they were a dark tan/brown. I can't believe how white they came! The last one, the runner, was the only true ecru color. Hot water and Oxiclean soak overnight. There are a very few small spots that didn't come out but hardly noticeable. I am so glad I saved these from the 'rag' pile! I appreciate handwork of any kind and can't believe someone else wanted to use as a rag.
Now that they are cleaned and pressed she would like AT LEAST the best two back. I am not feeling good about this, after she told me if I wanted them, I could have them.
I know they are only 'material' things and I shouldn't let it hardened my heart toward her.
Pray for me.
I look at them and imagine the stitcher sitting by the fire or lamp, head bent, lovingly making her stitches. Pray for my heart, my feelings, toward this woman. It feels like giving up something you treasure, to someone you know won't take care of it.
Kathy
xoxo
I will most likely give them ALL back, as I won't be able to enjoy them. Every time I see them, I will think of how she used me, and it will keep it fresh in my heart.
Not hardened my heart, is worth far more than these earthly treasures, I love.
https://www.egausa.org
Here is a link, try looking for the local chapter in your area and see if anyone can look at them for you as to what type of hand stitching. The long rectangle looks like drawn thread. The basket is hard to tell in the photo. Such treasures you saved. Good luck!
The woman didn't appreciate them enough to try washing them but NOW she wants them. I wonder if she will appreciate them now or just wants them.
I really feel used and I have never done people's dirty laundry. Don't get me wrong there. If a person does it for a living, it's nothing wrong in doing honest work, but that is not my job here.
I want to stay focused on being a good christian, so help me with prayer, to handle this rightly. This sure has given me some un-christian like thoughts and I don't like that. It has made me sick, both in spirit and in body.
My youngest daughter is like me, so I know IF I had anything worth preserving, she would take good care of it. I do have two, by hand cross stitch, pieces I did a long time ago. The girls joked once I need to do another so all three of my kids would have one when I am gone.
I found a whole lot of hand embroidered and crocheted doilies in my MIL's linen press when we cleaned out her house. Some of them are very old, worn, stained and in a (generally) very much loved and used condition.
When I added them to my own collection I have a pile about 8" thick and no idea what to do with them, other than I just can't bring myself to part with them.
I have a hand painted doily thingy I keep them in, (two flat, dinner plate size, wooden discs with holes on two edges of each one, with woollen threads that tie them together, keeping the doilies flat in between them). I know it has a name but can't remember what it is.
Anyway I often pull it out of my linen press and just go through each one, admiring the handiwork and the history of each beautiful piece.
I used to use doilies and table runners when I was younger and I still have a couple on coffee tables and display cabinets, but I put most of them away in preference to enjoying my beautiful Himalayan fur babies. Everything gets covered with fur.
I hope, one day, someone else will find them in my linen press and feel how much they are loved and perhaps enjoy looking at them as much as I do.
If they don't?
Well I won't be around to know about it. :-(
I have already put one of these 36" square cloths, on a table but won't take it off, until its time to give back to her. I have these 'bad thoughts' of telling her, if she wants them come to my house and help me uncover what I have them on. See, I am human and in need of your prayers!!! I just don't want to hear what she does with them.
You know, when she first told me about them, she said all this came from her husbands elderly sister. The sis is in her eighties. Was married once, but widowed, with no children. She owns a large acreage with a home and no telling what. This woman said they rarely go see her even though she is only an hours drive away.
The sister gave them some things she wanted them to have and these were included. I feel they didn't appreciate enough to even take time to wash them. All I did was put them in the washer overnight, in hot water and Oxiclean. Every once in a while I would let the washer agitate them. I mean she could have done that IF they meant anything to them.
I wonder what the sister would think, if she knew, after she has kept them so long.
These are only material things I keep telling myself....
I could no more throw away, or part with, any of her precious things than I could cut off my arms.
It’s hard for people like us, to ever understand heartless people.