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by hightechgrammy 23 Mar 2018 ( edited Mar 26'18 12:09 )
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I want to thank you all so very much for supporting me through all these challenges of my life. Losing both Mom and Dad within 6 days was probably more of a relief that they were together. It worked beautifully as God had designed. He is faithful.

Losing them has been hard, but truly this hasn't been nearly as hard as losing our Ben. There is something about losing a child that just shouldn't be. Kids are supposed to live past their parents. To lose a child to an accident make it harder, and trying to save our child and not being able to, has been the hardest part of my whole life. Thank you, Cuties, you have been incredibly supportive. I love you and treasure you all. Jan

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Comments (19)
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by pennifold 23 Mar 2018
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Oh! dear Jan what a wonderful picture of your Mum, Dad and Ben. I know they will all be having a great time together. Love and prayers for you and the rest of your family. Love Chris
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by momac 23 Mar 2018
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Dear Jan, my condolences go out to you once again. I agree with Chris they will be happy together. Look after yourself. Hugs from Maureen in South Africa
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by sdrise 23 Mar 2018
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Wonderful picture of the thee of them to treasure!! It is always hard to lose the ones you love. My thoughts are with you!
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by lbrow 23 Mar 2018
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As you already know. only the Lord can give us the strength to get through the darkest of times..My heart goes out to you and you have been and are in my prayers . His Grace is sufficient. Much love. Lillian
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by kustomkuddle 23 Mar 2018
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Beautiful pictures and lovely memories. I know they are looking out for each other just as I know my sister and my Dad are looking out for each other. I don't know how, but there are times that I can feel them with me so I am sure the same will happen for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Blessings.
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by dragonflyer 23 Mar 2018
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Beautiful picture of your Mom, Dad and Ben...I am sure they are together smiling down at you...
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by graceandham 23 Mar 2018
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I lost my previous husband after trying to save him and it has become a reassurance to me that I did all that was possible, but it wasn't to be. I get that in your family, it must seem so out of proportion for a child to go first, before the parents. Sorry it is still such a deep ache for you.
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by gerryvb 23 Mar 2018
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sending you hugs and love. and thank you for sharing the beautiful pictures
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by crafter2243 23 Mar 2018
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Jan I love this picture of the three. I want to believe that they are happy together. Hugs to you.
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by toogie 23 Mar 2018
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A great photo of your parents with Ben. ...Thinking of you Jan-Toogie
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by 02kar 23 Mar 2018
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We love you and know it's been hard since Ben died. We miss Ben too. He is still a very special Cutie to so many of us. And now Ben has welcomed his grandparents and they will be delighted when it is your turn to join the family reunion. Just don't make it too soon. We enjoy your company too.
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by rescuer 23 Mar 2018
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My boys still talk about Ben and how he must have been loved as he always showed love. He couldn't have asked for better parents or grandparents! We pray often that you will find comfort and peace. Hugs
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by barba 24 Mar 2018
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I am so sorry for your losses. Losing those we love is so difficult. Your picture is wonderful and full of love and happiness. I agree. Children should outlive their parents. In 1960 I lost my 17 year old brother to a freak car accident. In 1985 I lost my 7 year old niece to a heart attack and it just about killed our family. We were desperately looking for reasons and wondering what we could have done differently. The big question was Why!!! It broke our hearts years ago and it still hurts. Both of my parents and my husband have passed. The memories we have of loved ones keeps them with us forever. The pain of losing them never completely goes away but we learn to Cherish those memories and know they are with God and each other. Hugs and blessings, Barba
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by cfidl 24 Mar 2018
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It seems sometimes we feel that we are right where we are supposed to be. Thoughts and prayers to you and Willie.
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by gerryb 24 Mar 2018
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The picture of your parents with Ben is so heart warming...even among loss & sorry. They look so happy & we know they (all 3) look even happier right now! Still praying for you & your family.
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by ssampsel 25 Mar 2018
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Sorry for your losses. Think of you (& Ben) often. Prayers for strength & peace.
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by sebsews 26 Mar 2018
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I often think of you and your family. You are blessed. Hugs, Suzanna
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by maleah 26 Mar 2018
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May the good Lord keep you in His tender mercies
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by marthie 26 Mar 2018
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So sorry to hear about your losses. Please stay strong.