UPDATE: They ate last night and used the litterboxes, woo hoo! They only cry now when we go downstairs into their room, so for now we are keeping visits short. OMG....remember I told you that we were going to try to bring in Parfait & Buster (Jif, Skip & Cassie's little bro & sis)....well, I did it....yippee! I got Buster this morning, I scruffed him and carried him down to their new kitty apt. in ghe basement...I got some minor scratches as he went ballistic just as Jim opened the door to their room. He has cried most of the day and of course we can't handle him, so just went down and sat with him off & on. I knew I would not be able to get Parfait like I got Buster, so I got out a big rubbdermaid container and sat it outside all day with the lid off tothe side.....she finally showed up about 9 tonight, I went out to make her think I was going to feed her and I petted her, then quickly scruffed her, placed her inthe container, threw the lid on it and Jim carried her down to her brother...it sure quieted him down. I was so excited I was shaking......now we just need to be patient and slow in our approach. Yea!