Just a quick note about progress with Parfait....I made a huge break through with Parfait last night.....we were getting ready for bed (1 AM this morning) and I heard her crying.....I went downstairs and Jiffy Jo was by the screen door looking at her and Parfait was rubbing against the screen, so I went in, she ran to the other side of the room and I talked to Jiffy Jo through the screen, before I knew it Parfait was rubbing the screen again and then started rubbing on me. I was so excited I wanted to scoop her up, but I took it slow, let my hand hang down off my knee then she rubbed my hand and I began to stroke her......she started purring and was so excited she was dancing with her front feet (kneading on the floor)......this lasted about 5 minutes, then Jiffy ran off and Parfait ran to her safe zone.....so the secret to her heart is going to be through the other cats, but Jiffy sat there and just hissed at her.....was funny that Parfait didn't care at all about the hissing she just kept rubbing me and the screen door....now this morning I went down to see her and it was like last night never happened......I don't care, what happened last night was huge and I will take what I can get from her right now