Update: Oh my friends. Today I come to you again with a heavy heart asking for prayers. My middle daughter is in a toxic relationship- he is basically a narcissist for all intents and purposes. Either she does not see it or does not want to see it despite multiple people telling her. Yesterday morning she woke up to him sleeping on the floor because he was mad at her for something. She decided to leave for the day, He texted her and told her to come back and get the rest of her stuff. He didn't talk to her the entire day until she went back late last night. This is only one of many tantrums he has had. There are times he won't talk to her for days. He let her walk 3 miles to work because he could not trust her to drive his car. The list goes on. Today she informed me that she is moving with him and his mother to Arizona next Wednesday. Multiple people have been telling her it is not a good idea but she keeps going back to him and now she is moving 1500 miles away from us. And to top it all off she is 9 weeks pregnant. I don't know what to do except pray, cry and pray. She keeps telling me that she has hope that this fellow is going to change when the baby comes. We all know how that works but try to tell that to a young woman.... Thank you for letting me vent and for your prayers.

Thank you for you wonderful advise and prayers, We have made peace with out daughter leaving on Wednesday. Still have many reservations, but she is determined to go. She is supposed to come back in April for my granddaughters first birthday. So we will see then how things are going. We shall see if she comes back. Hugs.