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by toogie 02 Apr 2020 ( edited Apr 05'20 22:14 )
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Update below-Hello Cuties, this morning my brother in law is having surgery. The orthopedist is going to remove the vertebrae’s with cancer and put in rods, plates, etc about 12 inch incision, not sure how many vertebrae tho.

It is necessary because he was falling and the dr said without trying this he would become paraplegic and also lose use of bodily functions.I don’t want to burden you all with more that is not even in my thoughts. I just ask that while you are praying you would include him and his surgeon. His name is Douglas. He is 69 the ‘baby’ of the family, my husband’s youngest brother.

Update 4 hours- still in surgery...nurse called said he’s doing good

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by crafter2243 02 Apr 2020
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Praying for Douglas.
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by crafter2243 02 Apr 2020
Done
by toogie 02 Apr 2020
I knew I could count on you thanks
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by dailylaundry 02 Apr 2020
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Douglas is in my prayers as well as his family!! Please let us know how he is doing!! Hugs, Laura
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
The nurses should call Jenny about his progress. Thanks
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by sewdeb 02 Apr 2020
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Douglas and all those who are near and dear to him are in my prayers. Hugs*, Deb
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
Thank you Deb
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by graceandham 02 Apr 2020
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I'm in.
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
Thank you Betsey
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by pennyhal2 02 Apr 2020
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I'm so sorry that he has to go through all this. I know it is stressful for his entire family and all the prayers will hopefully help you through this and his recovery.
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
Thank you I am so sorry too.
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by noah 02 Apr 2020
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Our God Is Good:):)
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
Amen!
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by asterixsew 02 Apr 2020
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Toogie I have been thinking positive thoughts for your brother in law. He is lucky as in the UK all elected ops are cancelled currently and only emergencies are going ahead. Good to get a update during the surgery.
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
I wouldn’t say lucky. This surgery was needed immediately to save him from being paralyzed. Cancer is aggressively attacking the spine. Here too all ‘scheduled’ surgeries are postponed. Wife could not even go in hospital with him and he will be there days.
by asterixsew 02 Apr 2020
Toogie I apologies if I have caused hurt. I know a number locally who have had cancer treatment stopped at the moment due to the pandemic. Do keep us updated with his progress. Our healthcare nurses doctors etc are amazing people.
by toogie 03 Apr 2020
You have no reason to apologize, I hope I didn’t make you feel bad. I just wanted you to understand it was an emergency surgery, not anything he could postpone. It’s just a sad situation at a terrible time. Love to you-Toogie
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by toogie 02 Apr 2020
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Surgery finally over-The dr said he got what he could but some Cancer is in the muscles and spine and he couldn't get that out.

Said pain should be better now, as he was able to get it off nerve.

Thank you for prayers.
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by crafter2243 03 Apr 2020
I am sorry that not all the cancer was able to me removed. I pray that the pain will be gone, after recuperation.
by pennyhal2 05 Apr 2020
While that is not the best that you could expect, at least he'll be more comfortable once he gets out of the hospital. I'm sure you are grateful for the time he has. This is not an easy road to travel. Remember to take care of your self and do things that reduce your stress level too.
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by 02kar 02 Apr 2020
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God transcends time so my prayers will be honored. I pray that the doctor(s) and staff who are caring for him are guided by the hands of our Greatest Physician. I know it is very hard for you and your family not being able to be with him as he recovers so my prayers will include the peace that passes all understanding is with you all and that you are comforted by the best Comforter possible. Please keep us informed.
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by toogie 03 Apr 2020
Thank you Karen
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by crazypatchmama 03 Apr 2020
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Will pray for Douglas, Toogie. 🙏
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by toogie 04 Apr 2020
Thank you, we appreciate your prayers.
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by grammaheh1 04 Apr 2020
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So sorry to hear that Douglas is having to go through this major needed surgery at a time when he cannot have his family around him for support. Hopefully, this surgery will help relieve his pain and that the cancer cam be mitigated with cancer drugs. Prayers for Douglas.
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by toogie 05 Apr 2020
Thank you, he is in much pain today.
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by maleah 04 Apr 2020
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May the good Lord bless and keep you.
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by mary51 05 Apr 2020
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MAY GOD PUT HIS HANDS IN THE SURGEON.
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by toogie 05 Apr 2020
Douglas’s surgery was 3 days ago. He is still in hospital. In pain and having a hard time getting up and trying to walk. Hopefully each day will be better.
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by pennifold 05 Apr 2020
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Praying for pain relief Toogie for your brother in law. Praying too for you and your husband whilst everything else is going on in the world. Love Chris
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by toogie 07 Apr 2020
Thank you Chris, this brother Douglas came home today another Dean is in ICU. Dean is 81 and has congestive heart failure.