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by toogie 17 Aug 2020 ( edited Oct 03'20 17:58 )
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Hello Cuties, I debated to make a post or not, but I know you have been wondering and maybe fearful to ask, about my sister Sharon Sue.

I have spoken with her, which is so good, but also draining emotionally. She has been moved further away, but still in the same state providence. Sometimes I hear her coughs and the machines make it hard for her to hear me. I won't call her for fear of tiring her out, although when she calls she says she is so-o tired... She is still not on the vent. My nephew may have decided against that option. (keep Chuck in prayer.)
Sue still needs prayer and ask on one of the calls, that I pray for her, with her...I couldn't help but think of our sweet mamma when she did.
Mamma had dementia and sometimes wouldn't speak. Not too many days before she died, I was praying out loud for her. It was just her and I, in the room. When I was closing my prayer mamma said, "And Father" so I leaned over her to hear, because the rest was a whisper. I was so surprised she understood and wanted to pray as well. I would love to know what she said to Him....
Anyway, I know Sue is tired. I also think God gives us time to accept whatever His Will will be. At times I am more peaceful than others, about her fate. It's when I speak to her that really upsets me, because of her struggles in her daily life now and in the past. I guess it's human nature to feel all these emotions, the ups and the downs.
Chris's post about how this site, has been and still is, so good for all of us made me decide to let you know how things stand, with Sue's condition. We are a cyber 'family' that care for one another and can 'talk' to each other, whatever we are going through although I would not want to add a burden to any of you, with my concerns. I know everyone is going through this pandemic too. I hope you and your families are well.
Thank you for listening to me, for encouraging me with your prayers and for just being 'my Cuties'. Love to all-Toogie

Comments (11)
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by asterixsew 17 Aug 2020
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Thanks for the update Toogie and I am thinking positive thoughts for you, your sister and families.
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by toogie 17 Aug 2020
I thought you'd want to know.
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by stork 17 Aug 2020
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I will continue to keep Sue, Chuck, you and the family in prayer.
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by toogie 17 Aug 2020
Thank you
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by lbrow 17 Aug 2020
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The both of you are still in my prayers Toogie. Love you!
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by graceandham 17 Aug 2020
I can agree with Lillian in prayer!
by toogie 17 Aug 2020
Love you both!
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by crafter2243 17 Aug 2020
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Hugs for you and prayers for everyone. You are in my thoughts and I am glad you decided to post. It sometimes feels better to write down how one feels, almost like dumping fears and anxiety. You have a lot of prayer worriers on your side.
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by toogie 17 Aug 2020
I know and I appreciate it.
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by 02kar 18 Aug 2020
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I'm so glad you gave us an update. And pleased that you are sharing what you are feeling. You can never be a burden to us. You are so right that we are a cyber family and as a family we share the happy times and the scary times, so keep sharing. My prayers for Sue, Chris and you will continue. Now wtrap yourself in the dozens of cyber hugs that are flying your way.
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by toogie 18 Aug 2020
I’m always warmed by your words.
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by shirley124 18 Aug 2020
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I am so pleased you posted a update on Sue. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers, Hugs
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by toogie 18 Aug 2020
I just wish I could say things were better Shirley..
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by jrob 18 Aug 2020
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Toogie, as I know that you know, prayer is a powerful thing. We have a faithful and loving God who does not want to see us suffer. I'm continuing to pray for your Sue and all of her family. May God give you grace and comfort as He holds Sue in His arms. Sending you warm loving hugs.
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by toogie 18 Aug 2020
Thank you, I need them.
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by cfidl 18 Aug 2020
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Thank you for posting. I have been feeling a bit "out there" and appreciate your thoughts.
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by toogie 18 Aug 2020
Oh Christine I'm so sorry to hear that, I hope you're not getting sick. Take care and you will be in my prayers.
by jrob 19 Aug 2020
Yes, do take care Christine. I'm adding my prayers for you as well.
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by lidiad 19 Aug 2020
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Thank you for the update, Toogie. I was thinking about you and your sister. Hugs and prayers for you, your sister and Chuck.
Lidia
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by toogie 04 Oct 2020
Thank you Lidia.
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by rescuer 19 Aug 2020
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My dear Cute friend, I've been praying for your family. I pray the Lord will give you the peace and comfort you all need. You sharing with us doesn't add to our burdens, it only adds to our love for you and our prayers to Him. Thank you for letting us love you through this pandemic. Hugs!
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by toogie 04 Oct 2020
Your kindness is so appreciated, thank you.
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by arisann 03 Oct 2020
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My heart and love to you all! May God hold in His hands!
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by graceandham 03 Oct 2020
Arisann, there is a more recent post than this and her sister is back to the assisted living or care home, though still having breathing issues.
by toogie 04 Oct 2020
Thank you Arisann and Betsey too for updating you.