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by toogie 24 Feb 2021 ( edited Feb 26'21 09:34 )
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Update-we went to eye doc today. He treated hubby with the laser. Said it was a small tear but still bleeding so it was hard to see well. If this doesn’t take care of it he will require surgery. He also has 2 cataracts but we can’t worry about that until this is taken care of and heals.

Hello Cuties, I don’t know where to begin. For someone who tries to live a quiet life, tending to my own business it seems like life is anything but quite for me.
My daughter Marsha called yesterday. Her daughter Lanie has Covid. Lanie is tough, young and healthy but she text me this virus is really kicking her butt. Says she gets so weak, almost passes out.
Today hubby had to go see eye dr. He has a torn retina and goes to specialist in the morning. Hubby didn’t ask questions and of course, I couldn’t go in but was full of questions when he came out. I don’t know what to expect but I will wear my mask and hopefully go with him to find out what is what in the morning.
Prayers requested for both of them. Thank you

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by RobinRedBreast 24 Feb 2021
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Will be praying for a healthy and complete recovery for your granddaughter. Also for the doctors to know just what needs to be done for your husband and that they will let you go in with him.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
I did go in with him and so we will know in 2 weeks if what he did worked. Thank you
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by asterixsew 24 Feb 2021
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Hi Toogie positive thoughts coming your way. You certainly seem to be having a time of it at the moment and hope that life calms down for you all. Covid is strange, some people hardly know they have it and others are dreadfully ill with all sorts between the two. I ended up at the vets the other day for my daughter and ended up handing my phone to the vet as I was stuck in a three way conversation - me being the middle person. Tell your husband to take his phone and then you can talk to the Doctor
Take care and look after yourself
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
I went in with him, with my mask, so no problem. Maybe when they see old people together they just assume one needs the other to understand- I don't know if they think it's me or him-lol
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by hightechgrammy 24 Feb 2021
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Boy, Toogie, I can't believe all that has gone on for you and your family! Now COVID. hang in there, dear friend, things will get better..... I think.... I hope..... just don't know when. Prayers for you still. Love and hugs, Jan
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thanks Jan, one day at a time!
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by dailylaundry 24 Feb 2021
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Hope your granddaughter begins to feel better real soon. Covid is an awful sickness! Hope you get some good info from your husband's eye doctor! Why is it men don't ask questions? Of course, both your hubby and your granddaughter are in my prayers!! Take good care of yourself too, Toogie!! Hugs, Laura
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thanks Laura, Men do make me wonder how they had sense enough to marry us good women!-lol
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by rescuer 24 Feb 2021
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It is a good thing you are a strong person. I'll be sure to add the new trials to my prayers concerning you. I hope you have good news in the morning. Be blessed
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thanks we appreciate all prayer.
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by mrskiki 24 Feb 2021
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Toogie, you can have hubby call you on cell phone and participate that way. I was able to do that with my husband's visits to oncologist. Hugs. Nan
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
I went in with him and no one tried to stop me. The way he walks, since his back injury and the fact of age , they probably thought he need his YOUNG wife with him!-lol Lol
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by 02kar 24 Feb 2021
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Oh my, what a scary time this is. Please ell Masha to encourage Lanie to rest and rest some more. Believe it or not, my treatment plan while in the hospital and now includes rest. And I hope she is being followed by a doctor. There are treatments.
I agree with everyone else, order your hubby to call you so you can listen in and ask questions. These phone conversations with a doctor do work. Best wishes for getting your questions answered and prayers for Lanie and your hubby and you.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
You know we talked about how young people are...arr....She is on meds and inhaler. The health department, as far as I know doesn't check on her like they did my sister.
I went in with him yesterday and he saw MY dr so my dr was used to me asking questions. Came and spoke with me afterward too.
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by pennifold 24 Feb 2021
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Hi Toogie, may God bless Lanie so that she gets over the Covid virus and return to full health. Also for your husband's eye, I do pray that something can be done for him. For you my dear, take it easy and try and rest . Prayers are being said for you all. Love Chris
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you Chris, dr said was a small tear but still bleeding so I hope he fixed it and no future surgery. Lanie is young and so what can I say. They think nothing can harm them.....
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by jenne 24 Feb 2021
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I have just read about your troubles, praying for your hubby and Lanie also the Lord will give your the strength to bare all this , He the Lord is our great burden barrier.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Yes, He is, thank you.
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by sdrise 24 Feb 2021
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Prayers coming your way for Lanie and hubby... Wish you all the best Suzanne
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you Suzanne. How's the knee or the pain? Hope it's healing well and pain has lessened or subsided.
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by dragonflyer 24 Feb 2021
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Hope for a full recovery for both, Toogie... I had retina surgery about 3 years ago...
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you and hope your vision is good.
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by stork 24 Feb 2021
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Prayers for your family!! You have been thru so much these last few weeks. I too would have loads of questions for my hubby's doctor!! Prayers for a great outcome to all!
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thanks !
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by dlonnahawkins 24 Feb 2021
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Toogie - when you go to the retinologist they should allow you to go in with your husband. When they diagnosed me with macular degeneration last May, so many doctor offices did not allow anyone in, but they allowed my husband to wait in the car and when I was in talking to doctor they allowed him to come in and sit and ask questions with me. However, he had to go back to car while I had treatment and was not allowed to wait in the reception area.
Prayers to you and your family....This has been a tough year for you. Cyber Hugs.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
This had been a tough year for all of us. Hopefully life will improve soon for us all with the vaccination of so many. Mrs Lillian is 82 and still trying to get hers....
by pennyhal2 27 Feb 2021
When I took my husband to the ER a few weeks back, I could not go in the hospital or get out of my car. Sent me home with a phone number to call the ER for updates. He was able to come home in a few hours and they put him in the car. I have a whole new sympathy for people with loved ones in the hospital. It's hare to walk away from someone you love.
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by shirley124 24 Feb 2021
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My prayers are with you all. Hugs and blessing.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you Shirley.
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by 02kar 25 Feb 2021
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Prayers are continuing for both your hubby and Lanie. You are a wise woman taking this one step at a time.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you
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by cfidl 25 Feb 2021
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Prayers for you and your family.
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by toogie 25 Feb 2021
Thank you
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by sebsews 25 Feb 2021
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Praying for your and your family! I know what your mean about life turning up side down! Right now my family is a mess.
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by toogie 26 Feb 2021
In these times for sure we can all use prayer. Sorry to hear you are having a struggle.
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by asterixsew 26 Feb 2021
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Thanks for the update Toogie
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by toogie 26 Feb 2021
No problem, thank you
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by marianb 26 Feb 2021
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Hope the two of them get better soon. Sending healing thoughts your way.