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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008 ( edited Aug 04'08 18:19 )
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nervouse reck now the man has bought me a lap top i told him he did not have to do that he said it would be easier to be by the pool with a laptop then a pc funny man he keeps asking me what do you want or what do you need before i die i just tell him to quit talking like that i only want and need him

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by Cutie #8325825 03 Aug 2008
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I have faith he will be fine. They have come so far in heart surgery, it isn't half as dangerous as it used to be. God bless you and your wonderful family *4y
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
thank u misscharlie
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by loish 03 Aug 2008
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Remember that there are gazillions of people walking around with stents that they have had for years. Sounds a bit like maybe your hubby is trying to keep away the scary feelings with somewhat black humor. You have a lot of Cuties here to lean on who are thinking of you both and a lot of prayers being said on your behalf as well. Please keep us posted on what is happening, and feel free to post when you need someone to listen, a shoulder to lean on, or whatever. Love, Lois
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
oh yes loish i really apreciate everyone here
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by elaine45 03 Aug 2008
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Sounds like you have a very good husband....I hope everything goes well and he is home and back to his old self.
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
so do i he has not had sergery yet
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by shirlener88 03 Aug 2008
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Mary, thank you for the update and I want you to know - I have a friend that was about your husband's age - that had this same thing done - 20 years ago and he is still doing well - I think it is great that you hubby is making sure that you have things - that says a bunch on his part - but as you said - you only want and need him - that is how it really is - isn't it - we just need those that we love - now my eyes are leaking - I have to stop. I am happy that you did get the laptop to use - by the pool - you are living high on the hog - Hehehe!
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
lol yep trying to you have the address come on over
by katydid 03 Aug 2008
Tennessee people know what living high on the hog means!!
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by gerryb 03 Aug 2008
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Hi Mary! Will be remembering your hubby AND you in prayers! Is he having it done at Vanderbilt? You know if you are ever coming to Knoxville, you need to let me know! Tell him to do what the doctors says! No matter WHAT it is! Bounce back faster that way!
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
it is a heart specialist from cookville that come to our hospital here also
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by joaniessw 03 Aug 2008
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I am sure he will be fine. I will keep him and you in my prayers and please keep us up to date. Love & Blessings ><>
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
i will joanie
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by adelmarie 03 Aug 2008
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I am sure that everyting will be alright, there is a reason in life for everything. Good luck! *2U
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
yes i keep telling myself the same thing there are reasons
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by emily16838 03 Aug 2008
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I'm sure he's scared too. So be strong and tell him he will be fine...positive vibes...I hope that doesn't sound to granola...
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by shirleysisson 03 Aug 2008
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Mary, my husband had a stent put in about 8 years ago and he is fit and well now. It is not too complex a procedure - they do an angiogram and he was awake and watched on the monitor as they did it. It has meant a few lifestyle changes - healthier eating and exercise. He also has to take medication for stress and cholestral, but these are minor things. I'm sure all go well with your DH and my thoughts and prayers are with your family
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by meganne 03 Aug 2008
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Hi Mary, I'm sending some Angels to watch over you and hubby especially. Just keep encouraging him to think and be positive. Stent surgeries these days are almost ("old hat") and far more common than you know. My DH has had his heart stopped and restarted several times to try to get the rhythm back to normal, i've had angio-grams for rapid heartbeat 132 bpm, but too early for me to have surgery. The heart is an amazing muscle and surgeons these days are absolutely brilliant, so please stay positive and let us know how things go. Love and prayers are with you. Meganne
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by persiancatlover 03 Aug 2008
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Hello,my father in law did have 2 stents last year and he is feeling verry good again,he is fit and can do almost everything what he did before his heart was sick,the doctors know what they are doing they do this everyday,you have my prayers for your husband to get well soon,greetings connie
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by auntbaba 03 Aug 2008
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Mary, Your husband should be better than ever once he gets the stent put in. It keeps the affected artery open so that that part of the heart gets blood supply. As Shirley said, it's not a complex procedure, and he should feel a lot better after it's done. The two of you are in my prayers, and I know that all will be OK....Barb
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by jrob 03 Aug 2008
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Mary, as a surrogate mother to you, Pull yourself together! You have to be the strong one and keep things positive. He is having a relatively common procedure. It doesn't mean there is no risks, but it does mean that something doctors repeatedly do over and over and over they get very good at. Pray for him without ceasing and we will be in prayer for your entire family.;)
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by katydid 03 Aug 2008
Good advise, Jerrilyn.
by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
thank you jrob i am being strong well as strong as i can be
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by katydid 03 Aug 2008
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Oh!! sweetie you must be encouraging now. Positive attitude is important. So is exercise and healthy diet. My sweetie gave up "Wendy's" for lunch about 2 months ago and lost 10 pounds. He is eating corn on the cob, via the micro-wave, no butter or salt and an apple each day for lunch. Now, we need to work on breakfast and dinner next!!! I'll send you some tomatoes.
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
hey how did you grow some nice looking tomatoes i planted like 6 plants and i only got 4 or 5 tomatoes lol plenty of cucumber and squash
by katydid 03 Aug 2008
I got them out late this year and then we had a little rain too!!I got these marked down at the plant outlet and the tag was missing, so I don't know the variety. they grow in clusters like salad tomatoes.
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by nonmusicmom 03 Aug 2008
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Mary my mother in law had a stint put in last year. She was in and out and up and about in just 2 days. has had to change diet but no big deal. To tell you the truth she is now more active than ever. My poor father in law can't keep up.lol
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by Cutie #8325809 03 Aug 2008
yes diet has changed around here also i have to hide my chocolate and eat it when he is not here lol
by nonmusicmom 04 Aug 2008
I do the same with my DH he is a diabetic
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by katydid 03 Aug 2008
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ttt
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by clawton 03 Aug 2008
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I'm sure it is a very scary thing for both of you. Keep positive. There are a lot of folks here that have you and your husband in their prayers. He is sure to feel much better after the operation. You have a special man there!
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by nglover1 04 Aug 2008
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Mary I know you are both scared but keep a postive attitude for him .I have several friends who have had a stent and all are doing better than ever. Just know you have many sisters (and brother) saying prayers for both of you. You are both in out hearts. A flower for both of you. ( Enjoy the Laptop.)
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by dlonnahawkins 04 Aug 2008
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I know that it is hard, but do try to keep a positive attitude. Be supportive of him, and if he wants to spoil you some, let him, but then see that he is well cared for. I have friends who have had stents and were back to work and better than ever. Enjoy you laptop - but by the pool? Quite the lady of leisure!
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by colonies1 04 Aug 2008
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Well Mary all is going to be ok. With all these prayers you and hubby are going to be fine. Let him spoil you as that makes him happy but make sure you take good care of what he needs. All will end well I am sure. Prayers and all my love goes to you both.
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by dgrammy 04 Aug 2008
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Thank you for the update.The cutes have all given you such wonderful advice.You both will be in my thoughts and prayers.Try to stay strong and positive.Hugs
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by mpo14011 04 Aug 2008
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Thanks for the update, Mary. Tell hubby not to be so silly. Lots of people have this operation quite successfully, and anyway, what would the kids do if he died?! No, seriously, Mary, he is understandably scared. Let him have his enjoyment by giving you things if you guys can afford it. It gives him pleasure. You just keep your spirits up.We will always be here if you need to talk.I have given you a flower to cheer you up. Ricky
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by catwoman123 04 Aug 2008
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I`m sure hubby will be fine ,POPS had 2 himself and is doing good.GOD BLESS.
Cathy
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by stitchship 04 Aug 2008
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Wow, you've had a trying time! Tell him that we are praying for him, and that we will pray for his healing, so that he can be there with you and your children. It must be so scary going through something like that, but medicine has advanced so much, and God is good. May he recover quickly.
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by celticlady1031 04 Aug 2008
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Hey Mary. My DH had that done about 5 years ago and is just fine. A friends DH had 2 and is also doing fine. A change in diet and a bit of exercise and I'm sure your DH will be right as rain. The pool is just what he needs. Sounds like you could use a day or 2 of floating around too. Take care friend. It does get better.
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by mops 04 Aug 2008
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Hy Mary, my husband had two place Sept 2001, is perfectly OK, cycles anywhere in a 25 km radius instead of using the car, swims a mile a day (takes him 25 min) and is 71. Although he did everything our doctor said to tell his patient, the arteries were collapsed a bit, not clogged up. Operation takes little time, stay in hospital was one night and that was it. So cheer your husband up, he might still live to be a hundred!
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by mops 04 Aug 2008
But he is more caring than before! Which is of course a bonus.