felt compelled to comment on his message. Since I initially posted, I've had some time to think about what has been said today.

This forum is only what you, the major visitors and contributors make of it. I've read back quite a few months and have enjoyed the comments that have been made. This group was a loving, caring, sharing group, but that feeling certainly isn't here now. A loving and caring group did not create Eric's pain.

I've scanned back and there are some really interesting differences that seem to have taken place. There seems to be a great deal of disagreement about what should be posted where. Some major concern about who is #1 and accusations of dishonesty by another web site.

This web site will never be #1 and stay there if this is the type of major concerns broadcast in the forum. This type of negative behavior will only perpetuate itself because the people who will start coming here are going to be the people who thrive on disagreements. Or has this already happened? No, I don't think so, there are some really loving caring people who come to this forum and post. I can read the love and concern for others in this group.

The sharing of personal issues, illnesses, etc. and the love that has been showered on the members is very evident. I hope that without a moderator, that this group can self police and stop the non sense, otherwise, your group is going to become "just another forum."

This is to those who love to gossip...think before you speak...the back you stab may end up being your own.

Leslie