First off, you ALL are so kind, wonderful, warm people...I feel right at home here. In fact, I'm starting to spend more time here on this site, than at my sewing machine(s) - and considering I am trying to run my own small business from home with a toddler under foot, I still find it hard to break away from the computer!
Anyways, some of you have suggested sharing some things about myself. So here goes: I am 39 (next year will be 40 - eeeeeekkk!) with a 14 year old son and a 17 month old daughter. I got married to a wonderful, handsome man in June 2007. I did also have a step-son, but he passed away in Sept 2004....exactly 2 weeks before his 8th Bday. It was a horrible, horrible accident that both I and my other son witnessed.
The kids and I were riding our bikes on the first day of school (in the afternoon). My stepson had gone just a tad too far ahead of us and so we all stopped and waited for him to turn back. He was straddling his bike (both feet on the ground) when he was turning the front wheel back towards us. He turned his wheel toward the traffic and his front tire accidently left the curb. At that exact moment, a dump truck carrying a tandem load was going by (and not very fast, either.....must've been less than the posted speed limit, as he just finished making a turn). Kristopher's tire was caught by the first wheel of the tandem part and he and his bike were thrown in separate directions. His bike away from the truck and him underneath the last set of wheels. The truck ran over his mid section.
Alot of that day is blank for me now, but I do have little flashbacks of events. I remember screaming at the top of my lungs as I ran to him. I remember going into shock thinking he will be alright. I remember a nurse with a blue shirt who came running over to help me. And I remember the ambulance ride I took to get to him (my son and I had to go in a second ambulance, as we couldn't go in his) was sooooooooo painfully long - they did not even have the sirens going, just toodled along in the traffic with everyone else, stopping at all the lights along the way! I even remember calling his dad, and even his mom, to tell them what what happened and to rush to the hospital with us. But the worst part? That was later that same night, when the doctor's told us they just can't do anymore to save his life. Do you know what that feels like?! HORRIBLE!!!!!! Sorry, I am crying now as I type this. To have to go into the operating room to say 'goodbye' to a little, sweet, innocent child has got to be the hardest thing anyone ever has to do. I hope none of you ever has to go through that.
So, to skip forward a little bit, I made my fiance a Memory Quilt of Kristopher. Sewing and creating it helped me with the greif I was going through. When we moved away from the big city to the interior (Castlegar, BC, Canada), my fiance and his family convinced me to start my own business making memory quilts. The rest, as they say, is history. If you want to know even more about me, please have a look at my website www.kcquilting.com and read the About Me page....I even have some photo's of us posted on there.
So there you go Cuties, now you know more about me :-)
This reminds me of a Tombstone in an old cemetery of a child " We loved him, but GOD Loved him More".
You have a guardian angel watching over you.
Thanks for sharing, I know it's painful even now writing about it.
Nice meeting you I am also new on the site, here from Sunny South Africa.
I tend to spend a lot of time on this wonderful site, too.
Sorry to hear about your loss, and it must have been horrible, it one of my fears to loose one of my children.
Ok here is a bit about me.
I am a 40 something, yyes I have made the 40 sometime ago, married to a DH and he supports my sewing hobby fully, and will even find me bargains in fabric stores to add to my stach. I am then a mom of four, 2 sons and 2 daughters, aged 26(son), 24 (daughter), 21 (son) and 20 (daughter). We acquired another daugher on the 11 April 2009, she married our eldest son. The leave for Canada tomorrow as he is starting new job there, and what a wonderful oppertunity for them to start all new in a new country, they will be based in Toronto for a start.
well that is some about me and I will love to keep in contact.
Kind regards
Mel
PS will visit your site as I am also a quilter, and a member of the East London guild.
HUGS, HUGS!
Thank you for sharing a part of your life with all of us. I do hope that it helps you to talk about it. We can tell that he was very loved by you.
I hope you will enjoy your stay here. If you ever need any help, just ask. We have some very smart people here and they do not mind sharing when they can help. We laugh, act crazy, learn alot, collect alot of designs, free and Not. I do not include myself in this but there are some real design and computer geniuses around here! Some of the kindest people I have ever met has been right here. There is one major draw-back to getting involved!!! You spend more time here than on the embroidery machines but it is soooo much fun! Welcome, Linda in Ga
Thankyou so much for opening up your heart and telling us your story. I too was moved to tears and cannot fathom the pain and grief that you must have endured. This site is wonderful and all you have to do is ask and you will receive. All the other Cuties who have written and sent their love are very caring and sharing women/men.
I have only been on this site for a couple of months and found friendship, help, guidance, assistance when things haven't gone right with my attempts at embroidery etc. etc. etc. I cannot thank God enough for guiding me here. It has really been a blessing.
I too am a patchworker and have been so for over 20 years or more. I have just done my first Memory quilt and wanted to share this with you. I have just posted it under Projects. I would love you to have a look at it. I have been on your website and was overwhelmed by all the ones you have done.
I just wanted to thank you again for opening up as you did, I know that everyone here who has read your story will feel the same as I did. God bless you and your family. Memories are what life is made of.
Love and blessings to you Chris
Mona