I had it laid out on the bed tonight and was just crying. My husband was more upset over me being upset than the quilt. I told him I had really wanted to show it, take it to the Harley store for display and had a couple of quilt stores that wanted to display it.

So I will work on it off and on until it is ready to go back to the quilter.
I will live with the design going the wrong way. I don't think I could remove all the stiches of a 110x 110 quilt.
I was going to call her, but have been so upset that I know I will say the wrong thing. I have already paid her, but know once she knows I am not happy she will not charge me for re quilting. She has a good business and won't want it ruined. I did talk to a fabric store where she picks up the quilts and does alot of business with them. They assured me she would make it right. She has done several of my quilts in the past and does a fantastic job. Very detailed and entricic designs, so I know she can do good work. After I am calmer, I will call her.
This has been a learning experince for me. I will defentally be sure to tell who ever quilts for me in the future that if there are any questions or problmes to call me first!
Maybe by Christmas I can have this done. I'll take pictures and post tomorrow.
Thank you all for your advice. It really helped me in making my descision.