If you click on 'personal's then 'ask the community' it should show up there. ;-)

Yes, as Bikermom told you, go to the Personals tab, and when you see the list of posts, click the 'ask the community' button. You can also see that button from the answers to a specific post, but sometimes when you try from there it posts in the Public part, may be a glitch in the system. This is what's happening sometimes when people post freebies in Public, too, they've gone from an answer, not from the list. Hope I made that clear & didn't confuse you more, hee hee hee. Hugs, Marji