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by gerryvb 12 Feb 2010 ( edited Feb 15'10 06:58 )
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we all could read the sad message about Miss Loretta, Shirlene's dear mom. My suggetion : let's give the quilt in progress for miss Loretta to Shirlene, to show here how much we loved her mom too!

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by mpo14011 12 Feb 2010
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That is a nice idea. Or donate it to the nursing home for giving Loretta such good care.If they wish they could put it up on a wall in their community room for all to see.
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by pennifold 12 Feb 2010
I like both ideas. Love Chris
by gerryvb 12 Feb 2010
that's also a great idea
by clawton 12 Feb 2010
I like both of those ideas also.
by psssst 13 Feb 2010
Oh that would be a wonderful thing for the staff and residents to have a lasting memory of Loretta.
by meganne 13 Feb 2010
I would rather see Shirlene have it.

It would just be another wall ornament gathering dust in the nursing home, but I think it would mean the world to Shirlene.

As much as we all love Miss Loretta, hell I can only imagine how Shirlene must be feeling and how much this would mean to her as a lasting keepsake.
by lbrow 13 Feb 2010
I very much like Ricky'sn idea about donating quilt to N.H. Shirlene will always have things to remember Loretta by, the N.H. will not. I have seen this done & watched as visitors would comment on it remembering the person it commemorated. A picture & message was framed & hung with the quilt aong with a note on who had done the quilt. This way Loretta would b remembered by many along with the cute Fmly who cared enough to lovingly fashion a quilt for someone they cared about. Machine embroiders all, people will see & understand what can b done with an embroidery machine & love.
by meganne 13 Feb 2010
I never thought of it that way.

But I'm afraid, from what I have been told by N.H. staffers here, once the family no longer comes around the (more) valuable gifts given to the N.H., in honour of someone who has passed, usually disappear.

Maybe theft/greed is not the same problem there as it is in the N.H's here.
HNR, M
by lbrow 14 Feb 2010
I retired from being Director of Nurses at a Long Term & Rehab Facility Meg. Prior to that Asst. DON for 5 yrs. & it all depends on the NH. Most,if they are a nice facility keep things for yrs. like this. Use them for decor to show that they do care or cared for their residents
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by pennifold 12 Feb 2010
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Great minds think alike Gerry - I sent Deanna a Private Message over 3 hours ago saying the same thing. I also like the suggestion put forward by Ricky.

Love and blessings Chris
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by mops 14 Feb 2010
I like both ideas.
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by ken174 12 Feb 2010
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Here, here! What a beautiful idea Gerry...sandy
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by designgirl 12 Feb 2010
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Wonderful idea.
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by marietta 12 Feb 2010
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Gerry, I think it is a marvelous thought. I am behind you all the way.
Hugs and God bless
Marietta
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by workbecky 12 Feb 2010
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Wonderful idea. I wish I could give you a bunch of flowers.
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by workbecky 12 Feb 2010
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Wonderful idea. I wish I could give you a bunch of flowers. Sorry must have clicked twice.
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by jacquipaul 12 Feb 2010
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Dear Gerry,
That's the same thought that I had; like the idea from Ricky too. Since I didn't make a block for the quilt, I did not e-mail Deanna, but it's up to those who contributed to the quilt, to decide where it should go.
Thank you for your generous spirit Gerry, and for all of your contributions to this site.
Love,
Jacqueline
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by grandmamek 12 Feb 2010
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I sent Deanna a private message with the same thought. I think it would be a fitting tribute to her mother and I think it would have special memories for Shirlene.
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by nonna57 12 Feb 2010
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Gerry great minds think alike, I just got off the phone to Meg as her internet is down for at least 24hrs. I said the same thing to her. I think Shirlene would like that and when down she can wrap herself up in it and feel her Mothers Love :)
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by gerryvb 13 Feb 2010
yes that's what I had in mind, so she can feel our love we had for her mom too, as a comfort for her. personly I think it can be more a comfort for shirlene to know that we all loved her mom so much ,that we wanted to make this quilt for her. I think the staff in the residence will think it's pretty but they don't feel the love love and power for miss loretta from all cuties in it, something Shirlene definately will.
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by jerrib 13 Feb 2010
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Its such a sad thing to hear about Miss Loretta. When I read about the cuties making a quilt for her, I felt a warmth surround me. I thought at the time, and please don't take it the wrong way... how when it was complete and given to Miss Loretta, that when she did pass on to be with our Dear Heavenly Father, that she be covered in the quilt and take it to heaven with her. My family had a similar experience so this is why I thought that. My dearest friends, daughter Lisa had just finished a memory quilt for her new Mother-in-Law. She put pictures of all her family on the quilt and her Mother-in-Law was so taken by Lisa's thoughfulness. It wasn't a month later that she (the MIL)suddenly passed away, so the family thought that by covering her with the quilt, her family would always be with her.
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by psssst 13 Feb 2010
Very touching story.
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by castelyn 13 Feb 2010
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Great minds all thinking alike.
I also thought that it would be lovely to give it to Shirlene. After I read that Miss Loretta, is Shirlene's Mom.
I think Shirlene will treasure it, and feel all the love that went into it for her Lovely Mom, Miss Loretta.

Hugs Yvonne
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by sissibrode 13 Feb 2010
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I agree Gerry ! Yesterday I sent a pm to Deanna to suggest the same thing .... but I think it would be a great gesture of love
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by meganne 13 Feb 2010
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You have my whole hearted support for this.

I was thinking, wouldn't it be great if we could get the photostitch design Shirlene did of her Mum and put that in as the centre block.
I would gladly stitch it out.
HNR, M
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by gerryvb 15 Feb 2010
that would be lovely!
by kezza2sew 16 Feb 2010
Oh I will have to search for the photostitch design. I may have missed it, or was it the one when Loretta was young?
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by babyred 14 Feb 2010
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I think Shirlene should have the quilt. It would be a comfort to her when she is missing her mom. Shirlene would also have much more appreciation and respect for the quilt.
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by gerryvb 14 Feb 2010
I agree
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by daisy530 14 Feb 2010
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I think this should be made into a memory quilt for Shirlene. Miss Loretta's picture can be digitized by one of our expert digitizers and placed in center of quilt. I would be happy to stitch out the picture, but I can't digitize it.
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by raels011 15 Feb 2010
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I also PM deanna about giving the quilt to Sherlene and she answered that she would discuss this with Sherlene and I think it would be good to let her decide what she would like as I think we all have the same idea
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by kezza2sew 16 Feb 2010
You did the same as I did Raelene... and Deanna said the same to me...I agree a great idea to let Shirlene decide...