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Remember 14 mths ago they lost their Daddy in car accident which they were all in.. though no fault of their own.
They are only 40 mins drive away, but it won't be the same without them untill I can adjust again. Ok so I am a sook. My daughter is still only just coping, and of course I plan on seeing them often, but........
I have had some good old crys today...not that I let anyone see.
But I sort of guess it was time for her to try to move on for the 3 of them...
It will be easier for her to try to stand on her on two feet again and start making a life for them..
She got this wonderful old Queenslander and it is huge. It will keep her busy for sure. The littlies will miss me I know as I was always there for them. I said they have to put me number 1 on the phone so they can just call me....guess I won't sleep too well tonight...oh they will be back in the morning to pick up more things. See what I maen. I really am a sook.
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crazystitcher
22 Feb 2010
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I'm sorry you're sad and I understand you will be feeling a bit lonely - It is always difficult to "let go" but hopefully you can soon share in all the excitement of this new chapter in your daughter's life - no doubt you could make some new embroidered cushions or help with some specially trimmed curtains to help your daughter make her new house a home and show her how proud you are of her for having the courage and determination to make a new home for her children; I'll pray that you can soon replace your sadness with pride and be happy for your daughter and your grand-daughters; I hope they know how much you love them and continue to have lots of get-togethers with you.
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oh thank you for these words of wisdom, they do know how much I love them.
I have already thought of things to make the girls. Daughter tells me this morning, the police knocked on door at 4am with a call from a neighbour saying there were intruders in the house. He is elderly and may not of know she had actually moved in yesterday. Well at least I hope that was all it was.
I have already thought of things to make the girls. Daughter tells me this morning, the police knocked on door at 4am with a call from a neighbour saying there were intruders in the house. He is elderly and may not of know she had actually moved in yesterday. Well at least I hope that was all it was.
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well think of all the little projects you can do up for their rooms...I know it will be hard, but 40 mins. isn't that bad....I drive about that to go to work and it flies fast after awhile...you won't even notice the distance....remember your prayers daily for them and all will be better.....deanna
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your right, 40mins is nothing I know. Originally she thought of moving away so I am gratefull she never...
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jacquipaul
22 Feb 2010
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I'm so sorry to share your feelings of lonliness, but you've listed all of the reasons that this is better for them.
It won't be the same, but the independance is necessary for them as a 'new' family.
Like Deanna said; 40 minutes will fly by and you'll see them a lot. You will also have time to think about the little projects for their rooms, and will still be a special Nana. One of my children is going through a rough time also, and I have some of your same thoughts, but this child lives far away.
Love to you,
Jacqueline
It won't be the same, but the independance is necessary for them as a 'new' family.
Like Deanna said; 40 minutes will fly by and you'll see them a lot. You will also have time to think about the little projects for their rooms, and will still be a special Nana. One of my children is going through a rough time also, and I have some of your same thoughts, but this child lives far away.
Love to you,
Jacqueline
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I know that is true what you say, they do need there independance for sure. Swimming lessons are in her town, music they will do also. And lots more where as living with me they always had to travel and it was the one thing she is trying to cope with 'driving'. The 4 yr old is in Kindy there now also. I have many projects I want to do for the girls.
I want to do hope chests for them also so I guess I have plenty to keep me busy...and try to take my mind off worring. She will need to get security on first thing also...It is a small town but that doesn't make it a safe place. Bad people can live anywhere...
And finally I do hope you are handling your situation with ease. Being a parent is a never ending job..especailly when you treasure family so much...love Kerry
I want to do hope chests for them also so I guess I have plenty to keep me busy...and try to take my mind off worring. She will need to get security on first thing also...It is a small town but that doesn't make it a safe place. Bad people can live anywhere...
And finally I do hope you are handling your situation with ease. Being a parent is a never ending job..especailly when you treasure family so much...love Kerry
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I can only imagine how you feel! I hope that your daughter and the two girls will find happiness in their new home! I'm sorry that you are sad to see them go...I know it must be hard. I'm not exactly sure what a sook, is, but I can pretty much figure it out. LOL! I think that just about all mothers are sooks, when it comes to their family. It's all part of being a Mother! Once you have children...your world revolves around them....it's the way God made us, and there is nothing wrong with that!'
I hope you get over your sadness soon. You may find that you enjoy the quiet again after you get past the sadness. My prayers are with you and your daughter's family. I hope that she is able to continue to cope, and find a good life for her and her little girls!
I hope you get over your sadness soon. You may find that you enjoy the quiet again after you get past the sadness. My prayers are with you and your daughter's family. I hope that she is able to continue to cope, and find a good life for her and her little girls!
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thanks for such kind words, these really help me. Isn't it amazing how we become friends on this site. It is so lovely to hear back when one has a worry or concern...hugs Kerry
thanks for such kind words, these really help me. Isn't it amazing how we become friends on this site. It is so lovely to hear back when one has a worry or concern...hugs Kerry
thanks for such kind words, these really help me. Isn't it amazing how we become friends on this site. It is so lovely to hear back when one has a worry or concern...hugs Kerry
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Kerry, aren't ALL grandmothers sooks???? I know what you mean, I keep both my grandsons and when my daughter was on maternity leave with the last one and I didn't get them for 10 weeks I missed them terribly! You will settle in sooner than later and your daughter is a very brave young woman. She will need you to be in her corner and give her praise and encouragement. God bless all of you.;)
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Oh Dear! Praise now that is something I have not done for a while...thanks for reminding me Jerrylyn...I am usually so worried about telling her
about all the best things to do and security etc...So next time I visit I will certainly praise her for being strong and a loving Mum...she really is a beautiful daughter it is such a shame she is on her own with the girls....guess she may find love one day in the future.
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Kezza u are experiencing empty nest syndrome probably for the 2nd time, since she had already left to get married a while back. I found staying as busy as possible kept me from dwelling on the loneliness I felt when they were all gone. *
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yes I am sure that is it Lillian, I am searching for lace designs to do for the girls Hope Chests and designs for quilts, and fixing up the strawberry patch so when the visit, they gets lots of their favourite berries. Everything I think about is usually for the little girls...