But I cannot find the answer eleen. It is not in my pm box. Should I look elsewhere, forgive the ignorance. Still new to this site.

Hi Cheryl - no I think you've seen it as you've replied back again. (This post was like 5 days ago) Normally your PM tab will reflect +one more if you have a message unless it was a reply and not a new submission. As I've replied I kind of wanted to alert you that I've done so in case you don't go to the PM regularly. Must say I seldom go there and would also miss out on new messages. I will give you a call later.