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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010 ( edited Aug 07'10 01:00 )
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and his wife died of breast cancer in 1995. Their only other son has now died suddenly (heart problems). I feel so sad for them all and I am too far away to hug him. It is times like this that you hate being away from your family and homeland.

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by designgirl 27 Jul 2010
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My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time in your life.
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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010
Thank You.
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by judybell 27 Jul 2010
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I am praying for you right now and will continue to as the Lord brings you to mind. I'm so sorry about all the issues going on in your family. We have a big God and He can carry you all through these hard times. Prayers and hugs, Judy *****4U
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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010
Thank you Judy. I do believe God had his reasons for taking him.
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by 02kar 27 Jul 2010
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My prayers for this family. I understand how dificult it is for you being so far away, but a phone call, letter, email will mean a lot to them.
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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010
Thank you, It is so much easier today to keep in touch with internet etc.
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by dgarner 27 Jul 2010
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My heart goes out to you and your family; it is tragic to outlive one's children, not the "normal" pattern of life.
We will be praying for the "Peace that passes understanding" to settle upon you and your family and see you through this unspeakably difficult time.
Blessings,
Diane
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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010
Thank you, all the prayers and good thoughts are good at this time. It helps with not being able to give those you love a hug.
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by lbrow 27 Jul 2010
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So sorry to hear of this sadness in your family nualaa. We do not understand why God allows these things to happen but never forget He is in control. He also knows how sad it makes you to be so far away . Lean on Him. You will both be in my prayers. *
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by nualaa 27 Jul 2010
Thank you for your lovely words. It seems I have to lean on him a lot. Glad he has such big shoulders.
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by keeponsewing 28 Jul 2010
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Especially since you are so far away. I'll keep your family in prayer as they travel again through this rough period of their lives. May God Bless you. Draw nigh unto Him and he will carry you and the family during this time.
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you for the lovely candles. They warm my sad heart.
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by haydebug 28 Jul 2010
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Sorry to hear the sad news you recieved! you are in my thoughts and prayers!
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you, all your prayers mean a lot to me.
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by beatie58 28 Jul 2010
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My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad sad time! Time heals slowly memories remain! hugs Sally
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you Sally for your lovely words.
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by shirlener88 28 Jul 2010
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My dear there is nothing that can prepare us for the loss of a loved one - this is very sad - sad for your brother and very sad for you - because you can not comfort him - as you would want to - but please know that we all will be praying for each of you - to get you through this time of sorrow. Shirlene
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you Shirle. Your card and words are very warming.
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by pennifold 28 Jul 2010
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My heartfelt condolences on reading your post. How tragic for your brother and you being the Aunty. I will certainly uphold all your family in my daily prayers.

God bless you and take heart in the knowledge that God will be watching over you all.

Love and blessings Chris
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you for the lovely card and blessings. They mean a lot to me.
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by jrob 28 Jul 2010
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May God bless all of you at this tragic time. There must be nothing more painful than loosing your child. And how you could give 2 of them back to God, I'll never know. We are promised comfort in all times, so I will claim that for you and your brother.
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you for your lovely card and lovely commets. I really appreciate it. It is like having my family close.
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by gerryvb 28 Jul 2010
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so sorry for your brother and you. prayers for you and family with my deepest sympathy.Wished I could give you ahug right now!
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by nualaa 28 Jul 2010
Thank you.
I have had so many virtual hugs it is certainly keeping my heart lifted.
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by sewalaskan 29 Jul 2010
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So sorry to hear that. It is so sad. We have had so many deaths in our small town lately. It seems like a new one at least 3 times a week. Prayers for you & your family
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by nualaa 29 Jul 2010
Thank you, It is always difficult to loose someone so young.
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by teddybear117 31 Jul 2010
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Sorry to hear of your loss. I know how it feels and the pain from the loss never truly goes away. My son was only 19(1984)when the angels took him in their fold. May angels take you in their arms and help to ease your sadness. A hug for you from California,USA Kathy
The Loan
“I’ll lend you for a little time,
A child of mine,” God said;
“For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be four or five years,
Or twenty-two or three
But will you, ’till I call him back
Take care of him for Me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you,
And shall his stay be brief
You’ll have his lovely memories,
As solace for your grief
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return
But there are lessons taught down there,
I want this child to learn
I’ve looked in the wide world over
In my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lane,
I have selected you,
Now will you give him all your love,
Not think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come
To take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say:
‘Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him while we may,
And for all the happiness we’ve known,
Forever grateful stay.
But shall the angels call him
Much sooner than we’ve planned,
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes,
And surely understand.’
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you for the lovely verse. I will keep it nearby. I am sorry you had to loose your son at such an early age. Hugs and love.
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by psssst 06 Aug 2010
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My deepest and sincerest condolences to you and yours.
I read your white butterfly post first and I know you have found a degree of comfort in knowing that they are all together and at peace.
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you. It does help in believing they are at peace and are together waiting for us to join them some day.
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by 1ladyb 06 Aug 2010
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I can't imagine what that father must be going through. I also give you my sympathies as you grieve for this loss. I offer my prayers and comfort through Jesus.
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you everyones support means a lot to us.
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by castelyn 06 Aug 2010
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Sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs Yvonne
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you for your love and support
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by jacquipaul 06 Aug 2010
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I am so sorry for your loss, and will pray for you in this time of grief.
Love to you and the family.
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank You for your kind thoughts
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by quiltgrama 06 Aug 2010
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Sorry for your loss. Hugs
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank You.
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by grandmamek 06 Aug 2010
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Nualaa, My sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your nephew. May God provide you all with the strength you need during this difficult time in your life. Hugs, Mary
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you, I know God only gives us enough that we can carry, and I thank him everyday for the other good things in life.
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by kalinelson 07 Aug 2010
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Your brother has had so many tragedies, it's just heart breaking.....I will lift him and the rest of the family up in prayer knowing God will once again bring him through his sorrow...Janet
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by nualaa 07 Aug 2010
Thank you for your lovely thoughts.