concern that has been shown to us.
We had the most beautiful service - lots of crying and guess what I got right through the Eulogy to the very last line. I had typed out 4 pages of my memories. Everyone loved it and it wasn't until the very last line that I had to stop as I could feel the tears welling and dropping. I calmed myself by just thinking that there were so many of you people praying for me.
Over the past years I'd ring Mum just to see how their day was going and sometimes Dad would answer (this was when he could still talk properly) and I'd say "How are you Dad?" and he'd say "Alright later on, not bad tomorrow" -------- so of course I finished my eulogy with that and that was when I lost it.
Trevor got up and spoke after me and made it a bit lighter with some of the funny sayings Dad used to say and some were a bit risque! So there was lots of laughter.
Then our three children Ben, (only grandson) Dana and Amy got up and all three of them broke down crying uncontrollably - but they comforted each other. It was such a privilege to witness, we were very proud of them.
After Dad left the church our Priest Wendy and assistant Michelle walked in front of the hearse to the main street - only about a 60 metre walk. Boy, was that a moving gesture, you can imagine all of us just crying our eyes out by then.
Wendy knew Dad was not religious and so she gave us the most beautiful contemporary service. The first song was "Too Young" by Nat King Cole (Mum and Dad's theme tune), we then had Blue Spanish Eyes just after my Eulogy (Dad's favourite) and then after the Lord's Prayer "You Raise Me Up" by Josh Groban and then as the coffin left the church Hallelujah by K.D. Lang as far as I'm concerned the best version of it.
Well, by then you can imagine, we were just balling our eyes out.
On Dad's coffin was all of his favourite flowers with the most beautiful scent. In the middle was 3 red roses, one for each of his girls - Mum, Me and my sister Julie. As the coffin was leaving the Funeral Director picked up one of the red roses and placed it on the coffin.
Once Dad had gone I got up and asked everyone to come in to the church hall for afternoon tea. As we were having afternoon tea we watched a great power point presentation of Dad's life that our darling daughter Dana had put together.
The afternoon tea was all put on by the women of the church - for which we were so grateful. We had to do nothing, I only bought flowers (all natives) and one of our wonderful ladies did the most beautiful display of them.
My Uncle Brian, my husband Trevor, our son Ben and our son-in-laws Jason and Steve walked Dad out to the hearse. Following Jason was little Ryke (4 years old) who didn't really understand that Dad had died. Oh! the innocence of children is so wonderful.
Dana told Jasana that Puppa had gone to heaven and she asked "Who's Kevin?" well that bought a great burst of laughter.
Well, he has gone and my memories are forever. We have all our family around us and we are here for Mum. My sister is very torn - she is thinking of coming up here to Newcastle from Tumby Bay to live. We will continue to pray for that to happen.
I just wanted to have the last couple of days to spend with all our family before I wrote this to all you beautiful men and women who prayed for me.
God is so good. He has kept his promise to me and Mum.
Much love and blessings Chris
Today at church will be sad as the whole congregation will be with us. Straight after it we have to go to the Belmont Anglican Church (our sister church only 5 mins away - which was my church before I came to the Belmont North one) for Aqualina's Baptism.
We are really thankful for everyone's prayers, thoughts and concerns. He had a wonderful life and I am just so thankful, happy and sad all rolled up into one for the care and concern showed to us.
He will be greatly missed. Mum is holding up well, she said her goodbyes a long time ago, but there of course will be times when she is sad too.
God is good, He will keep us covered by his great love.
Love and blessings Chris
Love and blessings Chris
Love and blessings Chris
It will be a lovely day today Sunday 12th September as our grand-daughter Aqualina is being baptised. Dad would have loved to be there.
Yes, Mum will be looked after. I'm taking her for a trip to Adelaide at the end of October to catch up with old friends and Rosemary our cousin who stayed at my place has asked us to stay with her.
Love and blessings Chris
Keep remembering as a family the father you all loved and remembered before he began to fail. Take care
I was saying in an earlier post that every now and again a memory pops into my head and I cry or laugh. He was such a great Dad, Puppa and Great Puppa!
You're right too a funeral is a celebration of life! Praise the Lord!
Love and blessings Chris
Love and blessings Chris
Thank you for that great quote from Philippians - it's one of my favourite books.
After witnessing my father's passing from this life into the next I have no fear for it is just a breath away.
As I left him for the last time I whispered in his ear that I'd see him in heaven.
Love and blessings Chris
Love and blessings Chris
You are right about the memories, every now and then I recall something that makes me smile and sometimes shed a tear, but it is fleetingly now.
Dad would not want us to mourn too long and you are right we are so glad he didn't have to spend too much time in hospital. It's a pity he didn't even know we were there, well maybe he did!!!!!!
Love and blessings Chris