am taking him to the doctor's - we have no insurance and I fear for what might be going on with him - for one thing - he has lost over 65 pounds since the stroke - about 50 he did need to get rid of - but now with this and his history of bleeding with the stroke - I am so worried for him - what it means - what they will find - I am venting and ranting and I know it - but I will be calm in a minute and face the issue - I know that God will guide us through this - and if it means a high medical bill - I guess that is what will happen - but we do need to get some control over this bleeding and deal with the medical issues at hand. You all have been so kind to pray for him in the past and I would appreciate it - if you would do it again for me, too. THANKS! Shirlene
very big hugs Sonja
*4U and one for Rick, too.
I haven't stopped praying for you and I hope all will be sorted out today when you visit your doctor. I know you have a strong faith and I'll just keep asking for God to keep everything under control.
Love and blessings Chris
I know these are such hard times with no ins but let God take care you & Rick just get rest & get well.
Love you lots Virginia
I did not have an opportunity to post on your earlier post about Ricks fall. My apologies.
I am a little confused, from reading your post about his fall. You said,
"I hope he didn't really injure himself - when you fall - you sometimes don't notice the little things that make it hard to walk or move around the next day."
I am shocked that the paramedics did not take this into consideration! This is most certainly negligence on their part.
I think maybe you should contact an attorney about this negligence.
In regards to high medical bills, join the club.
Unfortunately we do not live in a country that has Universal Health Care coverage.
BUT we do live in a country that there are many channels to find assistance.
If worse comes to worse, you will have to file bankruptcy to eliminate your medical debt.
IF you are already receiving any type of federal or state aid (food stamps, homestead tax credit, medicaid)
no one can garnish your wages while you are receiving any of these services.
If you are not receiving any of these services, why not?
You need to apply... yesterday!
In a 2 person residency with no income, you definitely qualify.
Please remember...
"God helps those who help themselves".
As an example, if you asked me to help you plant a garden, but then just watched me as I planted the garden for you, I was not actually helping you.
I would be doing the work for you.
Many Christians fall into the trap of inactivity.
Many Christians ask God for help, but then expect God to do everything Himself.
They excuse this by pointing to the fact that God will provide according to His will and in His timing. If you are in need of assistance, ask the Lord to help you find assistance - but then be active in actually looking for the assistance.
While it is in His power to do so, it is highly unlikely that God will cause any assistance to come looking for you.
My prayers are with Rick and with you.
Hugs and Love Yvonne
Please try not to worry too much as it may be something as simple as hemorrhoides and may only require topical medication and a change of diet.
Pity I haven't had many people interested in buying my monogram designs as I was hoping to give you more tangible assistance from the sale of them.
Prayers are with you Sweetie.
HUgs and love, me
When Rick is resting, please try to rest yourself too.Yur rest is very important so you can be that guide for Rick.many hugs and love for you.My thoughts are with you both.
Cindy B.
Hugs and love Claude
Keep us posted -- we care for you and Rick very much.
Blessings,
Diane
Sometimes things just seem too much,but somehow we seem to get through.We went through similar circumstances when we retired...11 mos. later my husband was diagnosed with lung cancer. We had just moved to a new community and did not know a soul. It is a long story with a good ending. They took his right lung and 17 yrs. later he is doing just fine.
The Good Lord takes care of us in His way for His reasons.
Praying for you and Rick,
Love, Nadyne
prayers for you and Rick. people can recover from strokes.
Alice