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give thanks for him. I didn't understand him very well when I was a teenager. He was quite and reclusive. But I grew to understand why and to appreciate him for the quite, unasuming man he was. I miss him and love him. Today is your day Dad, I love you after all these years. He was 20 years older than my mother, and died 10 years after her.
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What a wonderful way to celebrate your father and memories! Big Hug to you!
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Thanks
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What lovely sentiments Terri, I know what you are going through. Love Chris
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Thanks
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shirlener88
02 Dec 2010
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Teri dear, I do understand. I am glad to see that you honor him with your reflections back. *4U
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Thanks my dear
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What a wonderful tribute to your dad. I still love and miss my dad. I think he was an amazing man and he gave me so much that makes me the person I am.
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Writing about him and remembering him, keeps him with me.
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Twee,
I understand your sentiments. I lost my mother and father many years ago, and it is strange how I still sense their presence at times. Such as when I am getting upset about something, I hear my mom's saying, "T'ain't no biggie, Hon, let it go!" It always calms me. My dad was a quiet man, as yours, did not say much, rarely showed affection, but, his look and tone made me feel loved. I miss them both terribly, even after all these years, and relish the moments of reflection where they are with me still!
Angel
I understand your sentiments. I lost my mother and father many years ago, and it is strange how I still sense their presence at times. Such as when I am getting upset about something, I hear my mom's saying, "T'ain't no biggie, Hon, let it go!" It always calms me. My dad was a quiet man, as yours, did not say much, rarely showed affection, but, his look and tone made me feel loved. I miss them both terribly, even after all these years, and relish the moments of reflection where they are with me still!
Angel
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What a fun saying to remember. Sounds like you had a wonderful mom.
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dailylaundry
02 Dec 2010
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This is a very sweet post! I understand as I miss my Dad and Mom so much. Gosh, those of us who had "loveable" parents (and there are those who didn't, bless their hearts!) - we have to consider ourselves very lucky indeed!
To your Dad on his Birthday!!!!! hugs, Laura*
To your Dad on his Birthday!!!!! hugs, Laura*
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Thanks so much
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asterixsew
02 Dec 2010
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Terri this is a lovely post. Maybe your father did not understand you as a teenager either. But it is good that you did get to understand him. There are times I feel I did not know my late father. This post has made me remember my father and mother too as it is 23 days off a year since she died
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We were the second family, and his first wife ran off with another man. He was afraid to open his heart up.
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How lucky you are to have these thoughts and memories of your father. Thank you for sharing with us.;)
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my treat
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I did not have my father in my early yrs. He was a Marine & in WW11. His sister raised me. He remarried & as I grew older we were very close & I loved him dearly. In his latter yrs. he had alzheimers & since I was his oldest child He always remembered me. I was the one who held him in my arms as he drew his last breath & I so look forward to seeing him again in heaven one day. I'm glad you grew to love & appreciate your dad Teri.
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Me to, that will be a glorious reunion.
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Isn't it wonderful how certain dates bring memories flooding back. My mother died when she was fairly young and I still celebrate her birthday each year. I hope the 1st was a good day for you. Sarah.
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Thanks, it was a great day for me. To remember keeps those loved ones near and dear to us.