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about her quality of life. It's been a hard 3 weeks I can tell you. She was originally booked in for last Friday the day of the Royal Wedding, but as Amy only got back from her holidays away she didn't want to have to go straight into seeing her darling dog put down. So we have had a reprieve of 5 days. All the children have been around today to say their goodbyes.
I am not looking forward to tomorrow - we have had Bella for over 12 years and also had her predecessor who was also a Sheltie (for 12 years).
My husband Trevor said he will come with us too as I don't think I'm going to be too good - I'm crying now just writing this to you. She has been such a true and faithful companion, always beside me and even sleeps on our bed! It's makes me cry just thinking about how much I'm going to miss her. She is always at the door when I come home, she yodels when she sees us. She loved to chase balls (which we haven't let her do for the past year or close to it as it's too strenuous for her). She just loves cuddles and being patted - doesn't like the brush too much, but oh! I'm going to miss her being around.
We know it's the best thing for her and I can't bear to see her in any more pain, so please pray for us alll tomorrow at 10.30am eastern Australian time.
I want to thank Marjilexa for her love and support as I know she has beautiful Shelties too.
Love and blessings Chris
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1. This is the picture of Bella on our outside landing taken this afternoon - isn't she beautiful? This is how I will remember her always, those pert little ears and that lovely face. Love Chris
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OH this is sad to hear. She doesn't look unwell...will say prayers for you all. It is very difficult to loose a family member like this but sometimes needs to be done. Been there & done that. Just remember that you will meet again at Rainbow Bridge.
Chris, this is a beautiful picture of Bella; one to keep and treasure! I understand your grief very well, and will be thinking of you wishing you strength, as you do what is best for sweet Bella!
Angel
Angel
such a beautiful picture of Bella.a picture to cherish.
This is a sweet face to remember.
What a pretty girl!
She is so beautiful.
Bella is a beautiful girl.
She is gorgeous....what great memories you will always have in your heart.
YES SHE WAS A BEAUTIFUL GIRL. LOVE YOU DARLING AND I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU! LOVE MUMMY
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My heart goes out to you. They are family even though they are not human. I saw her pic and she is beautiful.
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Thanks so much love Chris
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I am so sorry that you are losing your friend. But, try to take comfort in the memories you will have of her. They truely are family. We will be praying for you.
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Thanks so much for thinking of me love Chris
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dear Chris my thoughts are with you. I know it's so hard to have to take this decission. I know because I had to do this twice with our dogs. But remember it's for her so she will have no pain anymore. I do hope you have a lot of lovely memories and pictures. She will always be remembered by you.I wish you strength and in thoughts I will be with you in these hard times, to say goodbye to a very dear dog/friend.love and hugs for you my dear.
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Yes, I know Gerry, but it is still hard isn't it? Love Chris
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designgirl
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Dear Chris, I will be thinking of you and Bella this morning. We all love our pets so much, but we have to do what is best for them. We had to do the same thing a few years ago with our dear collie,"Whisper". It is very hard to let them go. I have a lock of her fur in safe keeping, and her remains are here in our dining room. I miss her everyday. Take care. Hugs and Love, Lynn
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Thanks so much Lynn love Chris
We too took some of her hair and I'll have her remains later today.
We too took some of her hair and I'll have her remains later today.
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I am so sorry. It is hard to say good by to a beloved member of the family. Keep those wonderful memories at hand to remember her at her best. And tears are healing. Each one shows how treasured she is in your heart,
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Thanks Karen, you are right the tears come and go. Love Chris
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I am so sorry for you and your family. I have gone thru this also. They are not just pets they are a family member. I'd like to pass along a poem that was given to me by a dear friend when my Goldie passed..here it is:
"Pets never really die, they just snuggle down deep inside the safety of a loved ones heart, gently settling down to sleep among the memories they've shared, and from that safe place to venture forth whenever you choose to stop and remember."
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jo
"Pets never really die, they just snuggle down deep inside the safety of a loved ones heart, gently settling down to sleep among the memories they've shared, and from that safe place to venture forth whenever you choose to stop and remember."
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jo
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Thanks Jo that poem is just beautiful Love Chris
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You are making me cry. I will pray for you. I am so sorry Chris. You have had some real bad days lately. Sending you love.
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Sorry Angie, but it's just been so hard to do this love Chris
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Chris , I'm so sorry to hear this. I know how hard it is to let them go but we must do what is best for our pets. It doesn't make it any easier though. Thinking of you
Bev
Bev
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Thanks Bev - yes it was hard to decide to do this. I kept thinking she will get better, but we knew it wasn't going to happen. Love chris
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What a dreadful decision to have to make. My prayers for your family on this loss.
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Thanks so much love Chris
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ohhhhhhh, missing words, sit here crying, sad! She'll go to a good place with now more pain.
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Yes, I know she will be running around in heaven chasing her balls. Love Chris
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I'm so so sorry Chris. I do however hear that all good doggies go to heaven, so she will be waiting for you there. I know what a hole this will leave in your life. Sending you hugs and love. ;)
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You are right Jerrilyn - I keep looking for her and every sound reminds me of her. Time is a healer, love Chris
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Chris I know how sad this makes you, you are losing a fmly member. My children have also at different times had to make these decisions & they grieve but didn't want their beloved pet to suffer anymore./Lillian
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Thanks Lillian for your thoughts and prayers. It makes it a bit easier sharing your grief with friends. Love Chris
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I know what you are going thruogh. I cryed about a week after I had to put my cat down after 13 years. My prayers will go out to you. Here is a hug.
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Thanks so much DeVon - I'm still crying at memories of her - sorry about your lovely cat too. It's heartbreaking, isn't it? Love chris
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Oh Chris Im so sad for you.
we went through the same just a little while ago
Our staffy Grace was 14 years old when we hd to say goodbye
to her..
I take the kids to school in the morning when I come back my house seems so empty with out her here :-(
People say Time is the only healer.. but for me
its having that photo like the one of your Bella
that puts smile back on my face and I remember the good times with her.
My thoughts and prayers with be with you and your family
Biggest of hugs from London
Maria xx
we went through the same just a little while ago
Our staffy Grace was 14 years old when we hd to say goodbye
to her..
I take the kids to school in the morning when I come back my house seems so empty with out her here :-(
People say Time is the only healer.. but for me
its having that photo like the one of your Bella
that puts smile back on my face and I remember the good times with her.
My thoughts and prayers with be with you and your family
Biggest of hugs from London
Maria xx
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Thanks Maria - your comments are so true. I come home and the house is empty and no greeting. She used to yodel when we came in and wag her tail so much. I miss sher so much. Love chris
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Dear Chris, I know exactly how you feel. On Feb 3rd. we had to have our Ollie euthanized. It was heartbreaking. He was a Boston terrier 12 years old. I will keep you in my prayers. I know the tears will flow for you and I will be thinking of you. I still get teary eyed when I think of our dog. Love and Hugs, Mary
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Sorry about Ollie - time will heal my heart I am sure and I am comforted knowing she is not in pain anymore. Love Chris
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Chris dear, this has to be so hard - but as you know - you don't want Bella in any more pain. I feel for you and will be praying for you and the family. Take care of you, dear one.
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Thanks Shirlene - you are right I couldn't bear to see her in pain anymore. It was the right thing to do, but it's still a hard thing for me to face up to. Love chris
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Chris its Wed 10:30am, and i am thinking of you and family at this sad time. x
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Thank you so much Pauline for the text message. It came through just as we had sat down to have a drink after Bella had gone to doggie heaven. We were all crying, the poor waiter must have thought we were weird! Love Chris
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Chris, I know just how you feel. I have had my dog to the Vet as well and she is 13,but thankfully a few more years left in the old girl yet. Lyn
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Thanks Lyn for your thoughts. I do hope you loved dog has many more years love Chris
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oh, Chris, I am so sorry. I have had to do this with so many of my beloved dogs. It is so hard but i don't believe in them suffering. I have sat in the waiting room and the attendant will come out and take the dog , leaving me the leash and collar. I cry all the way home. I thought it best I not see it. Well, this last time I had my Jessie dog put down she was in such bad shape that I opted to be with her and hold her little head and tell her everything would be all right and I am so glad I did. I think it was more final that way but you do what ever you decide. We will have you in our hearts. Kay
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I didn't go in with our previous dog - which was Ben's. This time though as we had raised her from a 10 week old puppy I needed to be there with her. She was just so beautiful hence her name - it means beautiful in Italian.
I don't know how people do this several times over it's just so heartwrenching. Thanks for your love and prayers. Chris
I don't know how people do this several times over it's just so heartwrenching. Thanks for your love and prayers. Chris
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Chris i have a huge lump in my throat and my eyes are leaking i have had to do this and after everywhere you look you expect to see them i am sue you have a lot of wonderful memories try to focus on them...........soozie
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I know just how you feel and you're right I have great memories! Love Chris