of very lovely caring people who love to share with others. Every once in a while a rotten apple needs to be tossed from the bushel so as not to spoil the rest.

This is the outlook I take at this or any other sight....
I chose to participate because most everyone is so friendly, positive and helpful. Those that are not are not happy with their lives and will eventually move on when they see how the rest of us band together against their negativity. I chose not to take anything anyone here says personally, one main reason is although you have become my "on-line" friends I have not met any of you, and you probably have never met the negative person personally yourself.

Like I used to tell my daughters when they where small (and visually show them). All the positive people in your life are like jelly beans in a bowl, the negative ones are like a marble thrown in the bowl with the rest. You can let it spoil and overshadow all the good or you and pick it out and dispose of it. The choice on how you deal with it is yours alone. Those who speak out against the abuse of others are chosing to remove the marble and enjoy the jelly beans.

What I'm trying to say is the rest of us jelly beans want you to stay, the marble can go!!

I wish you the best in whatever you decide, as I read all the comments on this I see there are many here who will dearly miss you if you go. They are the people who really count.