by
Cutie #8325809
10 Apr 2008
( edited Apr 10'08 05:05 )
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no question here just saying hello today was a hard day for me my granny died 4 years ago and i still miss her so much have a good night
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211079✽
by
shirlener88
10 Apr 2008
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mm, please know that your granny would much rather you remember her life than her death. I know what I am speaking of - my dear sister and her two children were murdered April 10, 1970 and for years my family remembered the day they died. It took us a long while to almost forget that date. Now we celeberate all the days that we had with them and tell all the stories we can think of - keep all the pictures around to remind us and laugh at all the times we had. So much nicer for us. I do understand, please know I am praying for you to be touched by this rather than to be upset. *4U Shirlene
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by Cutie #8325809
10 Apr 2008
thank you shirlene i know she is in a better place now i do still celebrate her birthday make a cake and make her favorite dinner beans and cornbread and i do go on and i know she is happy i have a embroidery machine i think she sews through me sometimes lol thank you for your kindness
mm, I know she lives in you - you have her in your heart - it is hard to mourn and get on with your life - but this you must do - for them as well as for you. Smile and be happy. What a great legacy she has in you.
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Thank you for coming by to share. my feelings with you. I try to look at things with the perspective that Shirlene says about my nephew who passed away at 6 1/2 due to cancer. That was 13 yrs ago. I do light a candle that day and ph my sis, but we talk more of good times with him. Blessings and flowers dear