viebschen, I just sqaw another post that you asked what PM means. Look to the top of the page ans see the folder tabs? The last one says "Private" If you click on that file folder, it will take you to another page and on that page you can type in the persons avitar name here on Cute, and type in a message. I already sent you a PM some time ago, so your file tab may say +1 etc. Hugs, Judy