Wow Shirlene, you must have quite a collection of websites. Seems you have it all at your fingertips. Betty

oh dear they were there, now they don't show, sorry

This is an odd answer to the question, but it is the reality. My husband has MS which is becoming quite advanced. (He's had it for about 20 years) With this (advancement of the disease and loss of abilities), he has developed some unusual anxieties. One is (I am guessing, because I don't hassle him about it since it is clear it is an anxiety) that he will not be able to do laundry some day and so wants to always have plenty of shirts. And so he orders them. Would I do his laundry? Of course, and fold it, now. But.....it is a new quirk he has developed the last 2 years and if it helps him manage from day to day, and doesn't bankrupt us, then I leave it alone. It is difficult when you age and become more vulnerable. I won't say more so for a man, because we girls are afraid of losing some abilities as well. But....he'll buy another 20 and go 'oh dear, there is no room in my closet' and take out some that were already hanging to make room. I think, also, that since he is now shopping online vs at a store, he doesn't SEE how many shirts he has gotten until the package arrives. If you're carrying them, it becomes much more clear how many you've grabbed. The short answer? It makes him feel better, so I let him. We're fairly simple, we have a few good suits and a few formal pieces for when it is necessary. A few pair of jeans. I know how to take care of fabric, so it lasts. And otherwise we wear only shorts and t-shirts. So, our clothing budget each year is negligible so it's not worth hassling him about buying an armful of shirts when he finds them on sale, once a year. Before, it was tools and I would almost faint. So, his expenditures are remarkably reduced. Let him have his shirts, I say. (Especially since my hobbies are so expensive and I'm the one buying tools and threads and fabric and silver and gems, right?)