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by pldc 29 Mar 2012 ( edited Mar 31'12 17:23 )
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Question of the Day: The other day I asked if you would loan out your sewing machine & I got a resounding "NO" today I am asking what would you lend out & why? Strictly sewing related,

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by bevgrift 29 Mar 2012
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Sorry not much. I made up little packs of thread,needles,unpicker and buttons etc for all the girls in my family.
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by bevgrift 29 Mar 2012
OOps and also for my DS
by pldc 29 Mar 2012
thats a good idea
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by terriweistra 29 Mar 2012
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I am ashamed to say .... Nothing. I loaned a lady in our area clothing patterns and when i got them back half the pieces were missing and the patterns were all crunched up!!! My stuff stays in my home. I am happy to help people if they come to my home and use my stuff where I can keep an eye on it :)
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
well that is good too
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by caroldann 29 Mar 2012
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I would, maybe, depending on the person lend them one of my quilting books. Nothing else leaves my room. Hugs..Carol
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
now see a quilting book or any book well that I may take exception too!
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by lique 29 Mar 2012
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Luckily I have not many people around me that sew, so it hardly ever is asked. I normally would lend out most things.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
ME TOO
by pldc 29 Mar 2012
I mean lend something, I have even lent MY CAR, which was HUGE for m e @ the time
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by amazinggrace 29 Mar 2012
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Sorry but I have to say "nothing" as things in the past have either not been returned or been returned damaged/bits missing. However, if they come to me and use my bits with me there then almost anything, but NOT, under any circumstances, my machines! Does that sound selfish?
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
Not at all, you are kind to share too
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by mysew1325 29 Mar 2012
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a pattern only.. mmmmmmmmmm
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
well that's ok too
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by mumzyfarm 29 Mar 2012
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I am not sure I would loan out anything. I would probably give away some material or thread to someone special but not anything I use in my sewing.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
me too
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by noah 29 Mar 2012
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I will lend out a spool of thread only lol hugs
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by noah 29 Mar 2012
no zeros please lol
by pldc 29 Mar 2012
if you say sew Hugs L
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by grandmamek 29 Mar 2012
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I would loan out a printed sewing pattern Example a McCalls or Simplicity. I would loan out thread but that is about it.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
well that's charitable too
by bevgrift 30 Mar 2012
BTW They also say only for pesonal use,
maybe like the copyrite thing.???
Hugs bev
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by lrichardson 29 Mar 2012
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I might lend out my 30 year old kenmore sewing machine, but NEVER the Viking SE.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
me too
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by bevintex 29 Mar 2012
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I like the saying"Neither a borrower nor lender be" It can cause hard feelings when you get your item back damaged or not at all. What would they need they could not afford themselves other than a embroidery machine? I say don't mess with my stuff,I won't mess with yours and everyone will be a lot happier.
Bev
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
Well you too must have had a bad experience with a borrower,
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by lesleyann 29 Mar 2012
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I lent a overlocker to a friends mother once,she pawned it! found out by chance and had to buy it back. so from now on ..if they can't afford their own,I'm pretty sure they can afford to replace mine!
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by nama2 29 Mar 2012
Wow, that takes a lot of nerve!
by pldc 29 Mar 2012
that's just WRONG on sew many levels! I'm sorry that this happened to you!
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by seamripper40 29 Mar 2012
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Nothing. Learned from experience you never get it back.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
ah that's too bad you must have been burned too
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by mysugarfootswife 29 Mar 2012
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Nothing. Well, maybe my husband......... Oh, you said sewing. Nothing.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
lol
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by highlandermom 29 Mar 2012
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piece of chalk lol, I do it every sew often with the Gks. Under close Gramma watch of course. Very choosey but have a few patterns. Will share even own ideas but the tools stay in my club house.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
I like the "CLUB HOUSE"
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by nama2 29 Mar 2012
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I have some old sewing machines that I don't use. If anyone wants to borrow one of those, I guess that would be OK.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
me too
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by cjmelm 29 Mar 2012
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Yes my BFF she is the best
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
me too
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
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WOW I am really surprised, how about straight pins? I think that is probably the one thing I am not fussy about lending out! You see I usually end up putting them in my mouth sew I don't want others doing the same, but if a friend wanted to use a few I would just give them to her!We have all kinds a gadjets in our sewing rooms from pins & needles to stitch rippers & the like, You honestly wouldn't just loan something small like these to a friend? I have to say I don't believe you, you are such a caring bunch of woman & giving of help in your own area of expertise, you have jumped in with both feet to help out the charity quilts & sew sew much more... I think if a friend asked you to borrow a stitch ripper because she misplaced hers & hadn't had a chance to replace it... you would loan her one of yours. Am I right?
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
ps **********4all Hugs Loralye
by bevintex 29 Mar 2012
Well something small and inexpensive I would just give and not expect it back. I have lots of boxes of pins,several seam rippers,small scissors even extra gadgets. I think if you can not afford to replace it yourself then don't lend it out.
by pldc 29 Mar 2012
that sounds exactly the right way to put it!
by pinon 30 Mar 2012
Nope! But I would give them the couple of bucks it would cost and tell them where to get it. I only loan books, and most of them don't come back and it's a pain finding another copy. I will say my DD's MIL always returns my books and if an old one falls apart she shows up with another copy.
by pinon 30 Mar 2012
s apart she shows up with another copy.
by pldc 30 Mar 2012
well she has proven to be a good borrower!
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by fannyfurkin 29 Mar 2012
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My best friend has my laptop, her computer broke down and she is studying, she is a single mum and does not have very much money so I did not want her to get behind in her study. I hope I get it back in good condition, but I do trust her. I am very wary about lending anything to anyone else though. I lent thousands of dollars to both of my sons and they did not pay me back and now they don't even speak to me unless it is to insult me. So I totally agree with "never a lender or a borrower be".
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
I am sew sorry to bring up hurtful memories that was not my intention, You are obviously a kind & caring woman with a soft heart too! Kudoos to you for caring!
by elizabethak 31 Mar 2012
Their loss dear. I remember you telling us about your family. I still think of you and hope you have found peace without your sons. You are far a better person than they could ever be. Lots of hugsElizabeth
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by susiesembroidery 29 Mar 2012
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Sorry, but after lending someone my steam iron I got it back broken, nothing goes out of my home. They don't treat your things with respect, and I will not lend my things out again. I think I am a terrible person, but yea, I feel that way. *****
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
I don't think that anyone here is a bad person I think that you have all been hurt & these "people" have taken advantage of you & that's not right nor is it fair!
by susiesembroidery 30 Mar 2012
I am grateful for all our cutie friends, who have also had bad experiences. It makes me feel better about myself to know that others also feel this way. Lovies and have a super day.*****
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by mary51 29 Mar 2012
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not exactly lending, I have given fabrics, WSS, I did lend an iron and never got it back, This is not sewing related in a way, I gave my laptop to a freind to do some maintenace, after 5 months asking for it, finally she gave it back, she deleted all my embroidery software, thanks God the Embird family was quick to respond, the while i was trying to figure out how to install Embird (not very nimble with computer) I clicked somewhere, I my surprise each member of the family has a folder and tons of things in it, I was so mad, the whole family were using my laptop!!!!! The only one with not folder was the dog.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
wow I'll just bet that she is not your friend anymore!
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by wp1012 29 Mar 2012
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NOTHING. I do not usually get my things back. If they want to know where I get things at. I will tell them. NO BORROWING. Period.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
wow you must have had a bad experience with a borrower?
by wp1012 30 Mar 2012
I have loaned my sewing machine and other things. I was told they could not find it. It took over a year. Then to find out it was broke beyond repair. So I had to start all over again buying what I needed. And at the very end they offered nothing in return. Not even I'm sorry.
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by darmoola 29 Mar 2012
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Years ago I did alot of sewing and desiging of costumes for one of the dancing groups my children use to dance to. I had a partner at the time and she was using my patterns. I moved and my patterns somehow got lost in the shuffle and my friend couldn't find my patterns. Just last year my little grandaughter joined the same group. Funny enough my patterns were returned to me through my daughter. 12 years later. Getting back to the question I do lend out items to my daughters. But never my sewing machines. I gave them old machines to do their work on so they don't ask me.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
isn't that something?You were kind to give them your old ones, I think @ one time any of our machines were our extensions, & we always treated them with respect that's why we still have them after all these yrs
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by shirley124 29 Mar 2012
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I have loaned patterns over the years and not got all of them back.
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
me too
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by gerryb 29 Mar 2012
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Any thing you loan out, you have to consider you have given it away. It does come back sometimes...but more often it does not. I share my patterns, but put my name in bold on the front of the pattern envelope. They USUALLY come home! I think we don't really mean to keep something, but it gets all caught up in our sewing stuff! I returned a friend's Q foot & just the other day I found the BOX it was in! She never said anything...but I'll be taking her box to her! See, even I don't always return everything, even if it is the box! (the whole thing was in a zip lock bag & I had put the foot back into that.)
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
well I bet that your glad that you found it all too right!
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by pldc 29 Mar 2012
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Ladies I feel that I must apologize it would appear that alot of you have had really horid experiences with "borrowers" in the past & I certainly didn't intend to bring up hurtful memories for anyone! Please forgive my ignorance. Hugs & ***********4ALL, Loralye
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by terriweistra 30 Mar 2012
I am sure you didn't do any harm at all Loralye. We have all had bad experiences with lending stuff and we all learn by our mistakes. It's good to share experiences, both good and bad :)
by pldc 30 Mar 2012
Do you really think sew? Be Honest
by susiesembroidery 30 Mar 2012
Dear Loralye, You have not stirred bad memories with me. I am just saying and answering truthfully, the question which was asked. I hope that you don't think that I am not loving your questions, because I do. *****
by airyfairy 31 Mar 2012
Loralye - this has been a great question. I do not think that you have stirred up any bad memories. Hugs Sarah.
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by lenamae 30 Mar 2012
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I loned my machine to a lady and she brought it back when she said she would in good condiyon How ever I loned a sewing foot when she brought it back I put it in something thinking I would not for get what I did with it and I hav not found it sence then but I was the one that miss placed it.
Lenamae
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by roberta 30 Mar 2012
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I have too much money invested to loan out any of my machines. I have found out that whatever you loan anyone they do not take care of it because it is not theirs. That's not being ugly; we work hard to pay for these machines and to have them worked on is not cheap and the person you would loan them to would not pay to have it fixed so No, I do not loan my machines out. You can come to my house where I can supervise but that is all. Roberta
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by kitty2011 30 Mar 2012
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You know, I think the thing is, when someone asks to borrow something like a sewing machine, it's usually because they don't own one so therefore have no real clue how to use it.. hence they break it. I'm surprised how many people have asked if they can borrow my machine to learn to sew !!!!!!!!!!! NO. Come & sit with me & I can teach you (on one of my older machines)
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by blueeyedblonde 30 Mar 2012
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Only if it's something I'm not concerned if I don't get it back. My son borrowed a pair of my fav. scissors - he lived about hr. away. He met his wife at that time and later moved in together and when I was there one time something go mentioned about scissors and she laughingly commented about a really good pair she had that she kept out of sight. I figured if she liked them that much - keep them. I had a couple pairs of those anyway and figured OK - I get a new pair! (She'd have given them to me if I'd said anything.)
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by sgillette 30 Mar 2012
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It all depends on who it is that needs to borrow it. I would trust my sisters with my own life, how many sisters do I have?
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by pldc 30 Mar 2012
I don't know, how many! LOL Hugs loralye
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by moonwillow 30 Mar 2012
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I would not let my embroidery machine out of my sight lol.But I do have several old sewing machines that have been handed down ..I get them serviced and ready in case someone needs one or I have to show someone how to sew.. Fabric I always have enough to share..My scissors ahhhh they are off limits!!Everyone in the family knows to stay away from the scissors lol..They cut cardboard well hmmmmlol And don't be worried about the question,it's good to see we are not the only one out there..We all share similar feelings and issues..It's good to vent also..hugs and have a terrific day!!!
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by pldc 30 Mar 2012
thanks I think I needed to hear this! Hugs Loralye
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by sewfrenzie 31 Mar 2012
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I don't think your question was meant to bring up hurtful memories. I loaned out several things and never got them back. One time I loaned out some patterns to a neighbor and when I got them back several pieces where missing. Fortunately I had another pattern similar to it that I could use. Now I only loan out things I don't mind not getting back, lol! We all have those experiences. Thats the way life is. I just laugh at it now. Keep up your great questions!!!
Hugs
Diane
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by caroldann 31 Mar 2012
I loaned out my pattern for a quilted vest. She was supposed to make templates from the pieces. When she returned it 3-4 smaller pieces were missing and she had the nerve to tell me she decided not to make it after all. Yeah, right. Hugs.Carol
by pldc 31 Mar 2012
man I think people can be just plain dumb! for lack of a better word!
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by lflanders 31 Mar 2012
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I hate to loan anything! I usually never see whatever it is again or it needs repairing or replacing when I get it back. The last two things I loaned my son, I most likely will never see again. I have(had 3 different size) Xyron machines. I, of course use the two samller ones mosre often that the huge one but I never thought I waould have to replace the largest one when I loaned it to my son, 3 yrs ago!!! I have asked him to return it several times and the last time I asked for it when I was at his house, he said he did not know where it was. It has been that way with him since he lest home. That was 8 yra ago! He borrowed my good calculator to do his taxes and I have never seen it again. The last time I asked him for it I was told that the only calculator he had was his! Every tool and garden equipment I had when I was sick and hospitalized so long is at his house and he refuses to let me have them back! I do not loan anything to him any longer!!!If I am not willing to give it to him, it stays at my house. I sent a cake home with my neighbor on one of my plates and it took him 3 yrs to return it! He is several yrs younger than my son who is now 45 and he has 4 daughters that he has custody of from junior in high school to 3rd yr at Ga Tech. He brought it back after he moved out. He was back over there cleaning up his house and dropped it off when he left. I think all guys/men are the same. My X and that goes back over 35 yrs ago would never loan anything to any of his siblings. He would go and buy it for them before he would loan his things! My best friend has two of my pressure cookers. She has had them for 8 yrs or longer. I finally just told her to keep them and I would replace my old one that I used all of the time. I really did not mind giving them to her because she helped me so much when I was sick and in the hospital/nursing home. Everything I bought for myself I would buy her one just like it for several yrs until I moved 4 hrs away from my friends and family! NO! NO! NO! I try to never loan anything!
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by pldc 31 Mar 2012
wow they sound EXTREMELY RUDE, No offense it meant for you in any way!I can totally see why you don't want to!
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by liz92b 31 Mar 2012
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if I'm in a sewing class: my mat, cutter, rulers, pins, etc.
otherwise: NOTHING!!!
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by pldc 31 Mar 2012
that works for me too