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by pldc 02 Jun 2012 ( edited Jun 03'12 04:22 )
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Question of the Day for June 2cd: Ok todays question is about my insecurities sew please be kind: Today is the first day of the Artwalk Sale & my first time being out there.....What if I FAIL? Everything I know is sewing, I sew almost EVERY SINGLE DAY! If I FAIL then everything that I do every day is ..................................... This is me being afraid

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by lbrow 02 Jun 2012
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Aaaaaaaahhh self doubt GO AWAY!! Get out there and have fun. You have done a great job and produced a number of lovely things. You will enjoy yourself and that's worth a mint. Best of Luck/Lillian
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by lbrow 02 Jun 2012
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BTW where is this art walk anyway. You never know even a cutie might show up/Lillian
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by kitty2011 02 Jun 2012
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lol... don't be so hard on yourself.
I think this is just exhaustion talking...

You've been working very hard... try to relax, You've done a great job & will be rewarded :)
hugs kitty
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by lilylady 02 Jun 2012
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As long as you have enjoyed what you have done its OK. You can not fail, as you did the work already and there will be somebody out there that will enjoy your products, even if its family. Don't put expectations to high, its tough out there!
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by suelyn7 02 Jun 2012
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Deep deep breath and tell yourself "this is my passion this is what I am good at and failure is not an option". How can you fail when it's something you love to do EVERY DAY nearly Best wishes you will not fail
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by jerrib 02 Jun 2012
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I am like you, always worried that someone isn't going to like what I do, but I think as long as you enjoy doing it, you can't fail. You can't please everyone, but there will be ones that absolutely love what you have done. You will do well, I just know it....
Reading the other comments, we all think the same.
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by oigelcox 02 Jun 2012
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You have done a great job. Who would not love these beautiful things that you have made. Relax take a deep breath and enjoy yourself. Big Hugs to you. Joyce
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by anangel 02 Jun 2012
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I try to look at things like Artwalk Sales, as an "adventure" to meet people, as well as an "opportunity" to display the handiwork! On any
given day, one cannot predict who will come, who will like and just browse, or who will decide to buy! So, relax, allow the day to unfold as it will. Those who
do not buy, may have loved the items and enjoyed browsing. So, you never FAIL; you give others a chance to see your creations, and if they don't buy is because they can't or shouldn't due to their own financial circumstances!! I applaud your getting enough items done to have a sale!! Wish I could have your stick-to-it-tiveness attitude!! Good luck, and enjoy the day!!
Hugs,
Angel
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by celia50 02 Jun 2012
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You will come home exhausted but feeling on top of the world. People always have something good to say about your products and it is a real confidence and ego booster. You will enjoy it I am sure of that!
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by mjdg 02 Jun 2012
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The very first craft show I did was and outside one in October! Rain, wind, ended up packing up early and leaving... only sold $150 worth. I was discouraged but kept everything and did an inside one the next year.... and made out very well. If you don't make a lot of money it doesn't mean you failed.... it could be the economy! The economy is one of the reasons that I quit. People are not as apt to spend as much. I ended up only doing craft shows nearer to Christmas because people will still buy for presents. I put up signs "ONLY .... DAYS UNTIL CHRISTMAS!" You could still do that... it would get attention! LOL
MJDG
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by mjdg 02 Jun 2012
I wish this site had a spell checker... or that I would have proof read this before sending..... but you will know what I mean.... :)
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by Janus48 02 Jun 2012
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This was a quote from a cutie - by gerryvb - may 30--- "Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently."- Henry Ford and I thought when I read it...it was a great quote..so I went back and got it for you. Also..failure is the path of least persistance. You go girl and keep trying!!!!!! And if it is what you love it is not a failure.
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by justonlyme 03 Jun 2012
Failure is the path of least persistence. Is that your personal quote? I LOVE IT!! So very true.
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by highlandermom 02 Jun 2012
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I have say that all have said well in answer and all wish you best. This is day Lord has made. May you find Joy in it and those you meet and what sells will but find another source for your goods and enjoy adding to it. You said it yourself Sewing is what you know you love it. Will trust in a peaceful, uplifting day with direction for you.
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by mariahail 02 Jun 2012
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You will be ok...
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by rescuer 02 Jun 2012
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You are not alone in your fears. My first time as a vendor was heartbreaking to me. My MIL was the only one to buy anything. I was not alone though. The rest did not sale any items either. It was poor advertising. Less than 200 people came.
I am sure everyone will LOVE your dresses! If they don't buy it is only the economy talking. I love what you have done and would buy one of yours even though I could make my own...French Seams and so very cute...I would buy four of yours if I could!
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by basketkase 02 Jun 2012
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Loralye...failure should not even be in your vocabulary now...just by getting out there with your product you have overcome the biggest hurdle and will open doors for yourself, just by the compliments you receive and the people you will meet. It's not always about the sales, but the journey....enjoy it, my friend!
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by lulu07 02 Jun 2012
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Don't know if you've left to your sale, but I do want to wish you the very best of luck...however, your products will sell themselves, you did a great job...let us know how you did...GOD bless you!!
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by susiesembroidery 02 Jun 2012
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I wish you a pleasant day showing your beautiful handwork off at your first Artwalk sale. Don't be fearful, for the Lord gave you the insight and blessing to make lovely items. He will also bless you on this sale. Go there with confidence and the knowledge that you did your best. That will be good enough for all to see and buy.*****
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by lflanders 02 Jun 2012
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All craft fairs are not the same. Some are set up and advertized well and others are not. There is no way you can tell from one Craft Show to the next how you are going to do!! You can sell out at one craft fair and do almost nothing at the next one so please do not ever stop or give up because your items do not sell well in just one show. The outcome is rarely the same two shows in a row! If you have a "failure" attitude, you will surely be very happy at some and very unhappy at others. Crafts sell when the time is right, weather is right and usually when there are several more going on in the same town or close by towns. Always do what you do well but never limit it to just a few different items. Display is important also. Try to put out multiple items that are related, such as dolls, purses, decorated clothes(embroidery), baby things are almost a must but do not go over board on anything because too muxh of the same thing usually ends up going to the the next craft fair. I used to hang a couple of each item up and then package the others so the design could be seen as well as the size of the articles. The more they are handled, the more they will look like they have been around for a long time. The main thing is to have fun, talk to all of the would be customers, and keep uour prices in line with the others that have similar items at the Fair. I usually packaged most of all the baby items in clear garment bags so they could be seen and NOT handled with dirty hands. Remember that food booths are usually serve the most people and their hands are going to be a bit messy after they have been there awhile. I tried to keep the hanging items high enough that small children could not reach everything! Accidents will happen when there are people are outside and shopping with their children! I do hope you have a wonderful day with sales and orders!!
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by undergroundsue 02 Jun 2012
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the only failure is in the not trying. Smile keep your head up you wil be fine.
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by blueeyedblonde 02 Jun 2012
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I'm sure you will be part way through your sale by now. With all the lovely things you've made you should do OK.
After reading all the comments by the others, it is encouraging for me also as I have someone after me to do the same. I did one years ago (no embroidery, just some small crafts) and it was dismal! But, that was another time, another place, and now I have learned a lot more. With cuties raising confidence - I will probably take the lady up on getting some things done to put with hers. So here's thanks to you for your courage to go forward!
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by noah 02 Jun 2012
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Well if you fail you do what you have done in the past
You pick yourself up ,learn from it and go on .
I have done this many times as you have to:):)
Also look how well and how far you have come in this last year.
You are not a quiter and we/i won't let you so there!!!big big hugs carolyn
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by bevintex 02 Jun 2012
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Don't go into with the attitude that you are going to fail. You are just setting yourself up for failure.You are a winner whether you sell anything or not.
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by pennifold 02 Jun 2012
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Dear Loralye, well it's Sunday morning here and by now I'm sure your sale is over. I loved all the answers here and I can only concur. You have come such a long way since your surgery and you will not and have not failed. The economy is such a big factor these days and those who don't buy are just missing out on something so special - handmade by YOU! Keep your spirits up, I'm rooting for you. Love Chris
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by pldc 03 Jun 2012
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Ladies I have to say A BIG FAT THANK YOU Today was a GIANT FLOP the wind was sew bad that things got whipped around & got broken & the tent got bent & I got hit in the face & hand & I was ready to pack it in But my daughter was a trooper until her glass things started to get damaged I guess the winds were gusting @ 45km & it was very open where we were @ Sew we packed it up & I was really down because we didn't even have everything out & we were running accross the street to pick things up!After reading all of the wonderful things that you have all said YOU HAVE ENCOURAGED ME TO TRY AGAIN TOMORROW!I was sew dissappointed & embarrassed I didn't want to come & tell everyone what happened! But I realize thanks to all of you that its OK & TOMORROW is This was a quote from a cutie - by gerryvb - may 30--- "Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently."- Henry Ford and I thought when I read it...it was a great quote..so I went back and got it for you. Also..failure is the path of least persistance. You go girl and keep trying!!!!!! And if it is what you love it is not a failure. from janus too well said!
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by pldc 03 Jun 2012
sorry I meant to say tomorrow is another day! & Now that I know what to expect I have changed everything to wooden stands that are heavy & will block the wind! sew here's hoping!
by shirley124 03 Jun 2012
Sorry to hear the wind rocked your sales. Hope for a beter day tomorrow. Love and Hugs Shirley
by rescuer 03 Jun 2012
That is quite the adventure you had! I think you should write it down and include all the feelings too...then give a copy to a child or grandchild that is discouraged and show them tomorrow brings new hope. I hope tomorrow is filled with eager customers and lots of cash!
by rescuer 03 Jun 2012
...and lots of cash!
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by justonlyme 03 Jun 2012
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It is too bad that the weather blew away your plans. But if you have another sale tomorrow, then perhaps the wind and rain will stay away so that patrons can come enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Don't base your view of you on an outdoor event that is mussed by the weather. It isn't accurate, no matter what. Take ten events, and average them, but don't forget to figure in the enjoyment factor of getting to that point!!!