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by pldc 11 Jun 2012 ( edited Jun 12'12 17:07 )
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Question of the Day for Monday June 11th: MY question today is: Do you know what our homemade gifts really mean.

Yesterday I was sew worried about the bag that I was gifting that I think I lost sight of the intention. The family that was coming over had taken in a teenage girl.You see the girl that received the bag was overwhelmed. To her it meant more than just a bag it meant that I accepted her as part of the family, She was sew happy that I included her that she burst into tears! I couldn`t figure out why she was crying & it took some time for her ``mom`` to calm her down & when she told us why I was too choked up to say a word!I had no clue, all I was worried about was it wasn`t perfect!I think that this memory will stay with me for some time, & maybe if I can remind all of us that our gifts truly touch other people in ways beyond our own understanding then maybe I can remind all of you just how blessed we all are! Sew again I ask you this: Did you Know

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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
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here is the link to the bag!
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by oigelcox 11 Jun 2012
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You are so right Loralye . We do get so worried about the things we make for people and loose sight of why we are making it for them in the first place. Hugs Joyce
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
well I have learned a valuable lesson & I hope to keep it with me as I continue on this journey! Thanks Joyce, Hugs Loralye
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by rescuer 11 Jun 2012
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I knew because of my Grandmother. She was the one who would make things for me with so much skill and LOVE! I watched her in awe as she created dresses for me. Because she was a busy woman and not much of a hugger, I never knew she loved me THAT much until I watched her sew for me. It was because of her that I decided to learn to sew.
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
ah thats sew sweet & a wonderful reason to sew! what a tribute to her! Hugs Loralye
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by jerrib 11 Jun 2012
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I am sure the Teenager will treasure that bag for years and will remember your kindness. It doesn't take much and it doesn't have to be perfect. I am sure she felt it was a gift from the heart and was very happy that you felt her as part of the family.
Hugs Jerri
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
thanks Jerri, & your right I'm sure! Hugs Loralye
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by theduchess 11 Jun 2012
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Yes little things mean a lot.The gifts that I have gotten from my SS @Cute are very much appreciated by me.I use them and stop to think of the time the person took for a stranger. Thank you
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
your welcome & thank you for sharing too! Hugs Loralye
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by stork 11 Jun 2012
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A gift is a wonderful way to "accept" a person as a friend or family member. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder-she saw perfect...love this story.
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
thanks sew much stork
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by tilde01 11 Jun 2012
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Your are so right, we do seem to forget how much our homemade gifts mean to others. Thank you for the reminder.
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
your very welcome Hugs Loralye
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by jrob 11 Jun 2012
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Thanks ~ A valuable lesson.;)
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
your very welcome Jerrilynn, Hugs Loralye
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by sewfrenzie 11 Jun 2012
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I am so happy for you! What a wonderful surprise to see her apprecaition and how much your exceptance affected her. What a wonderful memory to carry with you for years to come.

I just hosted a Baby Shower for my daughter and I made about half of the game prizes. Those gifts where the ones that got the most oohs and aahs. I made simple things like tea towels, mug rugs, can coozies, coasters, those little kleenex holders with a package of kleenex in them, pot holders, little cases like for pencils or make up, and a bunch of other things. Just little things trying to use up my scraps stash, lol! I made a mug rug that the colors didn't come out right, the gal who got it thought it was great! It was an Uncle Sam and my machine gave me the wrong colors so instead of red white and blue it was purple, orange, and white. She loved it! I learned a lot from that Baby Shower. I was worried no one would like the homemade items I made too, and was pleasantly surprised by the response they received. Now I won't be so nervous about making gifts for showers again. I think we are our own worst critics when it comes to the things we make. The "mistakes" we see go unnoticed by those who really do appreciate our gifts, and only those who don't are the ones who really look to pick it apart.
Diane
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by blueeyedblonde 11 Jun 2012
well said! Yes, we are our own worst critics! I am very bad for that, to a point I don't think anyone will actually like what I've made! Thank you.
by pldc 11 Jun 2012
well I am glad that your shower gifts were well received, I think that if I were to get things like this at a shower I would love them! I always go out of my way to make sure that every single guest receives a gift! I always hate it when I play a game & I can't get it figued out in time, This way no one else has to feel like this!
by pldc 11 Jun 2012
don't get the answers in time it makes me feel badly & this way no one goes home empty handed & no one feels this way!
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by blueeyedblonde 11 Jun 2012
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I know as far as certain members of my family, but as for strangers??? Thanks for the reminder. When I think about it, I can remember a few instances about something I made for someone I didn't really know (all homemade as we didn't have the money to buy gifts - I even used recycled items).
You did a wonderful job!
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by pldc 11 Jun 2012
I thank you & I think that homemade means sew much more then purchased. Don't get me wrong I purchase too But I much preferr homemade!
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by bokkieborduur 11 Jun 2012
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Loralye, I am so pleased just to be a friend. Hugs Marie
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by pldc 12 Jun 2012
me too Hugs Loralye
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by susiesembroidery 11 Jun 2012
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I love giving my 'home-made' goodies to friends, who always appreciate it so very much. I do not, however give to my sister-in-law (married to my DH's twin) anything that I made, since she abhores home made gifts. So, I know my true friends and strangers who love my gifts. It is such a thrill when they love what you made with love and care. What a pleasure.****
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by pldc 12 Jun 2012
It never really occurred to me, I think I am still in shock over such a profound reaction! It just amazes me that I had that effect over another person, a stranger really
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by marcellelewis 12 Jun 2012
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You may be one of the few people this young girl has ever had do something special for her. Good for you. Sounds like you really made her day. She will never forget your kindness.

Marcelle
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by pldc 12 Jun 2012
well I originally thought it was nothing just a simple bag! But I have learned to think differently!| thanks Marcelle
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by carolgm23 12 Jun 2012
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Sometimes you think you are doing for someone else, and the tables get turned. Both of you were equally blessed by this event. And I am quite sure this will make a longer lasting impact on her young life than you can imagine. Hugs, Carol
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by pennyhal 12 Jun 2012
Well said, Carol. When I was a teacher, the first day of school I noticed one student didn't have a backpack. Actually, he was the only kid in the whole school without one! So I bought him a super duper backpack. I knew his family was poor and I was not surprised that after only a week with downcast eyes he told me he was moving and handed me the backpack back. He did not understand that I had given it to him as a gift! I got out a permanent marker and wrote his name on it and explained. The smile on his face and the look in his eyes stay with me to this day. One never knows how a random act of kindness affects both the receiver and the giver.
by pldc 12 Jun 2012
wow that is a kindness I be he won't forget!
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by dec716 12 Jun 2012
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makes up for all those times when someone doesn't appreciate the love put into a 'homemade' gift
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by pldc 12 Jun 2012
I guess thats another way of looking @ it!