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Please send your prayers to my DIL. She is 2 months pregnant and started spotting heavily. Yesterday a trip to the doctor revealed she has a partially separated placenta. The babies heartbeat is still stable. The Doctor said not to get too happy or too sad as this can go either way. I am finding it very hard to be upbeat and positive. My heart aches for this little one who has only a 50/50 chance of survival. I am so worried I can think of nothing else. Please pray for my little grandbaby to be safe. Thank you so very much.
I posted this request in the community section and got asked to not post there again because this belonged in personal. I may offend a man! I thought this was a loving caring community! I have read other prayer requests, jokes, questions unrelated to sewing/embroidery, etc under the community tab and nothing is said to them. I am so very upset right now that I probably should be writing nothing but I am terribly hurt by being reprimanded at this time with the pain I am already in. The tears just keep coming! Sorry if I have offended anyone. I think this is why some people can belong to cute for years and post very little. I have belonged for about 4 years and you can see by my flowers that I do not post, I mostly read and learn. I came here for comfort, unfortunately now I feel worse!
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Done and you have not offended, We have so many different people and we all can only do what we can do. I wish I could take that back because you are correct in that people post to community all the time. I am glad you posted here and please come back and let us help you during this difficult time. Hugs and more hugs!
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I'm sorry that someone chose to chastize you during a time when you need support. My prayers are with you and your family, for strength, healing, courage, wisdom and peace during this time. And for the medical staff, that they also be lifted up so as to make the correct decisions at all times. Please keep posting.
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crafter2243
27 Jun 2012
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Please don't worry about it. There really no rules apparently. All kind of things are getting posted in community. I have been here since the personal tab was created and it has been interpreted by different people differently all the time. Community was supposed to be for embroidery. Freebie for Freebie and personal for personal. However what is personal is such a big ?????. The problem is that most Cuties don't read Personal, so things get posted in community to make sure they are being read. I have read everything from health issues, family issues, lost and sick pets, jokes and more under the community. So your post was reaching out to us and you don't have to be sorry for that. I never thought that the only time we post in Personal is not to offend males in this community. How ridiculous is that.
Barbara I am so sorry this has happened to you. My prayers are with you and your family. This is no longer the community I had enjoyed for so long.
Hugs to you Angie
Barbara I am so sorry this has happened to you. My prayers are with you and your family. This is no longer the community I had enjoyed for so long.
Hugs to you Angie
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My sentiments exactly, especially about offending males. Jan
This is so true !
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barba, sending you BIG hugs in your time of sadness.
Do try to stay positive, I know it's difficult.
I was in the same situation as your DIL years ago, unfortuately I lost my little girl.
However it was explained to me this way... there was obviously something very wrong.. mother nature has a way of dealing with things.
What is to be, will be.
Which ever way it goes will be for the best.
But for now all you can do is have faith & be there for each other.
I wish you & yoour family all the very best.
hugs kitty
Do try to stay positive, I know it's difficult.
I was in the same situation as your DIL years ago, unfortuately I lost my little girl.
However it was explained to me this way... there was obviously something very wrong.. mother nature has a way of dealing with things.
What is to be, will be.
Which ever way it goes will be for the best.
But for now all you can do is have faith & be there for each other.
I wish you & yoour family all the very best.
hugs kitty
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dlonnahawkins
28 Jun 2012
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When someone is hurting as you are now, people should have a little empathy and understanding. I do hope that eveything works out well for your daughter. My daughter and I lost a grandbaby when she was abut 8 weeks along...it is something that tears at your heart, but sometimes it is for the best. Bless you and your son and DIL...prayers for them.
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cherylgauteng
29 Jun 2012
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So sorry to read this whole post. Extremely sorry to read about your DIL - hope that the bleeding is reduced now. I do not know any men that would be offended by this post and hope that I never meet any either ???
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My heart goes out to your family! I can not imagine the pain you feel and how your son and DIL feel but I hope things go for the best. Please post again when you know more. We are here for you regardless of where you post. Hugs, Debra
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hightechgrammy
30 Jun 2012
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Dear Barba, please know that 99% of Cuties ARE kind and caring. I don't care where this is posted. The important thing is you reached out for comfort and prayers. You did nothing to deserve being scolded. I'm praying for your little grandbaby, your DIL and for YOU - and I know many others will be also. Please don't let one person's hurtful words get to you. We do care! Hugs, Jan
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Barba, sorry you got scolded for no reason. Don't let it bother you. I personally don't care where things are posted. I don't post that much either. I don't come in every day. I don't have many flowers either but I don't care. I had a similar situation with both my babies like your DIL and I am happy to tell you that with bed rest and care I have 2 wonderful sons who have grown to fine men. I will pray that everything goes fine for your grand baby and the parents. If God brings you to it he will bring you through it. The Lord be with you all. (((hugs)))
Donna
Donna
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Thank you, It is news like this that makes waiting easier. Hugs, Barba
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christracey
30 Jun 2012
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Hello Barba. How is your DIL & baby doing? I did reply to your other post (apparently in the wrong section). I have been praying & thinking of them & wondered how things are.
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Still spotting with some clotting and tissue but so far no miscarriage. I am praying so hard and that is all I can do. Thank you for your concern, at this time all the positive comments are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your prayers.
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So far no change. Thank you all for your prayers, they are very important and mean so much at this time. I am encouraged to hear from ladies who have been here and have been blessed with healthy little ones. You are fantastic ladies for the encouraging words and prayers!
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Thank you for letting us know. I will continue prayers. Please keep us posted.
Angie
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well it's 11 days ago you posted this, So how is DIL and the baby? hope and pray everything will be alright. Please keep us updated,and please come every time you want and every time you need our support to comfort you. Prayers and hugs are coming your way!
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Everything seems stable, no better but no worse either. We keep praying many, many times every day and I feel God is listening as the spotting has not worsened. We will know more on July 26 when she has another Dr appointment and they will check the placenta separation. Thank you all for yor prayers, I firmly believe they are helping and God is listening! Bless you all! Hugs, Barba
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Thanks for the update. I have been wondering how things are. Like Gerry I come back to check on the status. Continued prayers for DIL and the Baby.
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Please accept My Apologies on behalf of any who have made you feel worse.
Huge Hugs and prayers !
Bev
Huge Hugs and prayers !
Bev
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marjialexa
10 Jul 2012
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You and your DIL are still in my prayers, even if I don't post here a lot. I hope everything goes well for both mother and baby, this must be so hard for you, I can't imagine. Try to keep positive, and trust in your faith in God, it's often a refuge from the storms of life. Read the 23rd Psalm, it's so comforting. Please continue to keep us posted on this situation. Big hugs, Marji
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How is DIL and baby now?? I do hope all is well but under the circumstances, this is a situation best left in the hands of the Dr's and God. We can pray for a wonderful healing from our Lord and only He knows for sure what is best for your DIL and Grandbaby! It is always sad when something happens when Mom is expecting but lets just all pray and hope for the very best for both of them.
As for where you post it, do not let it worry you or upset you what anyone says. Changes can be made but around here, nothing is written in stone and we all do care about each other. May all of you soon have all of the peace you are praying for. Just remember our Lord is loving and caring and He will do what is best for everyone. My prayers are with you and your family! Linda
As for where you post it, do not let it worry you or upset you what anyone says. Changes can be made but around here, nothing is written in stone and we all do care about each other. May all of you soon have all of the peace you are praying for. Just remember our Lord is loving and caring and He will do what is best for everyone. My prayers are with you and your family! Linda
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susiesembroidery
10 Jul 2012
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Sweetie, Nature has it's own way of working on the body. I pray that it will be God's will for your DIL to be able to carry your grandbaby fullterm. Lovies and I am thinking of your plight in my prayers.***Stay strong and faithful - God will hear you.
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crafter2243
22 Aug 2012
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Barbara how are things going? Would you please update us. It is so much on my mind. Thanks.
Angie
Angie