My husband,John, age 66 passed away last night, we think it was a massive heart attack because of all the medical problems he had. Gonna be hard, really hard on me and on the family and my boys. I never thought that he would go before me. I am lost and don't know what I am going to do. I can barely get down my steps to go outside, not sure if I can drive, have to talk to the doctors about that. I was restricted by them to drive before but it is my left leg that is the worst. That's it, nothing more I can say, no arrangements have been set up yet but it will be a short viewing and he will be cremated and I have donated his eyes, that is the only part of him they could use other than skin and bone and I turned that down.
Love and thanks for the prayers I know you will say. Deb
Christie
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
difficult situation. The Lord will supply your needs, Debra. He has
for a long time now. Just think upon all the good times you and John shared with each other and family, of the great team you and he were to muster through all the hard times together. He is smiling confidently from heaven right now, knowing what a wonderfully tough lady you are, and that you will carry on with that same strong determination still! May the Lord lift you up at this moment, and grant you a special peace with John's passing. You have wonderful memories to sustain you in the days to come, and a sweet guardian angel to watch over you as you regain your stamina and strive ahead.
No words can convey how I truly feel right now, but, Debra, know you are loved and cared about by so many!!! We're always here for you at any time!
Love you SO very much!
Angel
May God hold you and your family in his loving arms. Hugs Jerri
Take some "Me" time to rest up and allow the body to recoup some energy.
It is so kind of you to allow some one else to benefit at this time and to give that wonderful gift of sight to a total stranger, i know they will be so glad to be enabled to see their loved ones again That is a wonderful and kind thing to do
annie in the uk
Hugs Pam
So very sorry for your loss. You have been through so much and need more support and prayers....they are coming your way. Just wish we were close so I could help you out.
Tonya aka stork
your strength will come from the Lord
P.S. It's been 13 years for me, and God blessed me with a new husband. That I didn't expect!
I took the life insurance money and bought a wheelbarrow and the lifetime dream concert piano and threw myself into "flower therapy" and "music therapy". So much cheaper than a therapist. Hopefully your sewing can serve for your therapy!
I imagine the thoughts you must be having, how could this be?
I know you have probably already thought that perhaps it is HIS way of making the journey easier for you, even though it doesn't make it easier for you just now. You are a strong lady, you will come through this and in time you may even think that perhaps it was meant to be this way. I say this with great love and the deepest conviction that there is a hereafter and our loved ones are waiting for us there.
I know none of my words helps make this any easier and I am rambling on because I am so shocked that this has happened.
I wish I could be there to support you and help you, but all I have is my beliefs and my words and my deep affection for you.
I am sending my prayers and my love and my heartfelt sympathy.
I am here if you feel the need to talk. I don't know what else I can do.
your friend Meg
You have my thoughts, prayers and loves
I've just come upstairs as I couldn't sleep (100% humidity already!!!) and came on to Cute. To say I am shocked beyond belief is an understatement and I've been crying the whole time reading all the pouring out of sympathy for you at this time. I too am at a loss for words to comfort you, but know you have the love and support of hundreds of women and men on here who have been supporting you through prayer in what you personally have been going through.
It's such a magnificent act that John has done by donating his eyes, for they are the windows to your soul.
I pray that you and your boys will be of great strength and comfort to each other during the coming days. Prayers for you too to "rest" up. I too wish I could be there with you to hold you, be a shoulder to cry on and just be. May God walk beside you at your time of need and may you feel him close by.
Love and blessings and continued prayers for you all, Chris
I am so sorry to hear that your wonderful husband passed suddenly! Your heart must be breaking in your sorrow. Know that all of your Cute family is crying with you. If there's anything we can do, even if it's just an ear to listen or a warm hug ... we're here for you, dear lady.
Sending you a hug now,
Marion in Kentucky
It is said that God will never give us more hardship than we can bear, so you must be one truly strong woman! You need to lean on Him now. May you receive the comfort you need from your family and from above. God be with you and give you strength in these days. I care for you so much, you are in my prayers. Love, Debbie
begin to cover the loss of your husband. However, I do know that it is God that sustains us when we can go no further. May he bless you with strength and when you look down and see only two footprints you will know he has carried you..
Hugs
Doreen
You and your family will be in my prayers
Hugs Brenda
my heart aches for you and your family, you are in my thoughts and prayers (as always). Please take care of yourself as much as is possible in a situation like this
hugs
Michelle
Our Father, I pray that you will enclose this family within your loving arms. Give them comfort and peace at this trying time. Give them knowledge and wisdom to handle all the things that will be coming their way in the future. May they see your light glowing in this darkness at this time. In Jesus holy name, I pray, Amen.
Please keep us updated.
hugs Helen
So sorry for your loss. I know, no words that can ease the pain. I can't say I know how you feel , Because I don't. Know that I will keep you in my prayer because GOD know what you need and just what to do for you that is my prayer.! with love
Aleene
Muffy
Luv Raelene
Jan and Chris
April22
Prayers for you. Hugs Edith x
Sending heartfelt thoughts to you for comfort and understanding at this terribly sad time.
Much love - Alma.
Alice.
Love & Hugs, Nadyne
May God Bless and keep you safe.