Best Idea you had. I bite my tongue and no one can acuse you of anything. Thanks

Sigh. I still struggle with this.

If we take the time to think about what is said and wait until we have thought about it for 24 hours, we may be able to comment without any feelings being hurt. As there are many different countries with Cuties, sometime the language translation may be entirely different. Hugs to all.

Sometimes it is really hard for me to keep my mouth shut. I bite my tongue a lot!!!

I'm learning. And it isn't easy for a big mouth like me. But it feels so good after you've done something like that.

....wise words, thank you......

I had not heard this saying before. Thanks for posting it. I will add it to the things I think about before I speak or type.
I always try to remember that if I give someone "a piece of my mind" (a saying -- meaning telling someone exactly what you think) then eventually, I will have "lost my mind" (a saying -- meaning crazy) entirely.

Yes but sometimes it is so hard not to answer to some persons ;-D
From time to time I have to sit on my fingers to prevent me from writing comments *lol*
Always try to act with the nice saying from the movie Bambi in my mind: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all...
Greetings, Bettina

Beautiful thoughts, Heather, and you were the smart one. ;)

Good 4 U

Here's my own personal twist on this:

"A closed mouth gathers no feet."

OK its been a day now and I'm fine. It really gets up my ribs when someone always has to have the last word. I must say it was not any of the cute family. BIG HUGS

Most of the time it's the best thing to do, then calm down and tackle the problem or person from another direction

Good on you. Sometimes it's so hard to keep quiet. I try to keep in mind - If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. xx

My neighbor said If u give someone a piece of your mind u lose your piece of mind So true ah??hugs