Yes we all have different gifts. We need to have the courage to stop being so "politically correct" that we're afraid of every word we say that somebody might take it the wrong way. And people need to have enough sense to understand that "bullying" is intentional, and grow up and quit being such cry-babies. We need enough sense of self and self worth and self esteem that we don't go hanging ourselves from the rafters because somebody comments on our makeup or the length of our skirt. When I was in grade school, the "bully" high school boys took my girlfriend's hat and wouldn't give it back. We didn't cry, we beat the snot out of them with our little sissy girl umbrellas, surprised the daylights out of them. They gave back the hat, and we never got bothered again. Bullying is quite real, but this comment is really far-fetched, and the whole thing is getting a bit out of hand. This is not only looking for trouble, but using a bulldozer to find it. Frankly, quit bullying Gerryvb.