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by toogie 17 Mar 2014 ( edited Mar 18'14 20:07 )
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Have you ever had one of those days,where nothing goes right? Well, today is my day.I couldn't locate a free standing lace angel, for a friend, she asked me to make.Then finally found it and my thread kept breaking,then my needle broke,then I got the skirt stitched and was ready for the rest and I noticed on one side edge, the threads didn't even connect! It is going in the trash. First,it was asked for a funeral, and the last thing I did for a funeral, was a smocked dress for my grand-daughter.I am not up to doing this emotionally, and second, I .....This afternoon,I have an appointment with a cardiologist, that I have never seen, and don't want to go.When I needed one and was having trouble, had to go to ER.After I came home, I made this appointment for this new cardio dr.Then after the second episode,I had to go back to the ER, because my family dr, his partner AND this cardiologist were ALL out of the office that week,so 2 trips to the ER. Now, that I feel better,I don't want to go, cause they won't find the problem. I don't need them (and more bills) now.My blood pressure is usually low but I bet it won't be today.Just had to rant so I wouldn't cry, not my usual self,sorry.-Toogie

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by asterixsew 17 Mar 2014
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Good Luck for later today. Sometimes the thought of something is far worse than when it happens. I relate to the first part of your comments as I put a frame down this morning and the wasn't able to find it when I wanted to put it into the machine...
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
I've done that too
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by ktk9 17 Mar 2014
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Some days are like that! Just do what you have to do to get through it and pray for a bright spot along the way. Will be thinking of you and wishing for the best. JB
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Thanks,I'm okay now
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by dennis999 17 Mar 2014
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Hi Toogie. I was so sorry to read of your troubles today and hope that you feel much brighter by the time you get to read this. I think that it is true to say that we all have days like this at some point or another, although not with the added emotions that you are having to deal with. I am sure that your friend will understand perfectly the need for you to put aside her lace angel for the time being.
I do understand your concerns regarding your appointment today but please do go. This is something that you just cannot let slide by. I know from personal experience that sometimes you just have to start thumping the consultants desk and be very insistant for answers regarding your health.
I know that all your friends here will understand your feelings at this time and will be happy to listen in the knowledge that it may go some way to brighten your days.
Of all else fails............................stand in front of the mirror and put your special hat on. Take care.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Thank you dennis,I guess I will have to make me 2 hats.I will keep the yellow for my happy days and what color to do my sad hat? Hopefully it won't be worn much.
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by babsie 17 Mar 2014
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Don't worry it will also pass and things will be better again. Thinking of you and hope you feel better now. It usually does after getting it off your chest. Only South Africans will understand this part but here it is. I had to go to the Department of Home Affairs this morning as I checked my marital status before going to get the new identity card we all have to get now. They made a mistake with mine and did not change it when my husband passed away in 2003 so on their records I am still married. I traveled 32km in peak traffic to get there only to find out that their computers are off line and they cannot help the public. So I visited some friends and went shopping! That made me feel better. Have a nice day and a big hug for you.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Why are you all 'having' to get new identity cards?
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by elemausi 17 Mar 2014
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I know such days too, but after bad days comes allways better days, good Luck for you.
Feel with you.
Bärbel
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Yes, time for better times,Thank you
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by airyfairy 17 Mar 2014
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Good place to rant - lots of Cutie support Please let us know how it goes with the cardiologist. Tomorrow will be better. Hugs Sarah.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Nice enough Dr. He told me what he wanted to do, and I told him what I would do. I went for my family.I have had 3 brain scans since Sept,along with other test,so they know I am hard headed and there is NOTHING up there!-LOL- I really am better(I knew I didn't need to go today-lol) and so is my mood.Thank you
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by dragonflyer 17 Mar 2014
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Sorry you are having such a bad day...Hugs to you my dear...I hope you are feeling better...
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
I really am,sorry to make everyone 'worry'.
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by 02kar 17 Mar 2014
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I am giving you a big hug. I wish it could be a real one. I understand how you feel about going to yet another doctor.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
I thank God for DRs, but sometimes...don't get me started again-lol-I know you don't want to hear it!
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by noah 17 Mar 2014
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OMG i will pray for peace and rest and a good report from the Doctors .Let us know the results ok Hugs CarolynXXXX
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
No results,you know this is my INITAL visit with new DR,where they get all the history,info,order more test ...and oh yes,send you the bill.-LOl
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by jrob 17 Mar 2014
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Oh, Toogie....I'm sending you a big hug and a big prayer. Dennis had a brilliant idea to put your hat on, but DO go ahead and wear it to the doctors office ~ with a straight face. At least they will be able to diagnose that you are fun.
Jerrilyn
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
If I wore that,they would admit me in the Psycho ward!
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by Leaha 17 Mar 2014
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I think the whole day sounds like a neglected special hat day. If that is the case you must not do that again. Instead place your hat beside the bed try it on before you go to sleep and make that your first item to wear when you get up. It will put you in the right spirits and give your household a chuckle. Sending angels to watch over the rest of your day and help you get through. Who knows they might need a chuckle also. :P
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
I am sure my guardian angel has her hands full with me,thank you
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by kazza 17 Mar 2014
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What a day - Have a great day today!
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Sure....thanks
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by grandmamek 17 Mar 2014
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I hope your appointment went well and that you ended up liking your cardiologist. Hopefully they find the problem and are able to fix it. Let us know. Hugs, Mary
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Seems nice enough,and I WAS too.We'll see how it goes, thanks
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by ribblev 17 Mar 2014
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Oh dear...........a good 'rant' always clears the air, even if it does raise your blood pressure.........gets the adrenalin pumping and proves you are still alive. Hang in there..........Ann
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Blood pressure 90/60,didn't raise it. Thanks
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by graceandham 18 Mar 2014
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Toogie, I hope by tomorrow everything looks bright and sunny and hopeful. You're always such an "UP" for most of us.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Thank you,I try to live an up life,as much as possible.I love mornings,everything fresh,and morning sounds,like the birds...I hear one now,tweet,tweet,tweet.I really do,no joke.
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by memasanders 18 Mar 2014
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Hope you feel better You will be in my prayers tonight God bless Ronny
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Thank you,it's helped.
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by cfidl 18 Mar 2014
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I am glad you feel better, however it is important to get a diagnosis in case it should happen again or if it is a sign of another problem. Best wishes toogie and big hug.
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Thanks,today IS another day,so things are better,I hope.Sorry to air 'negative' feelings.
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by sewilso 18 Mar 2014
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I'm so sorry Toogie, I hope you're feeling better. Some days are better than others. Please take care of your health, and number one. YOU!!
I know this is not related to your smocking project but did you know if you're fan of applique junkie on facebook they have a bunny rabbit smocking design in their free design tab? They are doing other cute smocking designs too on their website, for purchase.
Please take care, rant away, stay well!!! Hugs, sharon
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by toogie 18 Mar 2014
Not on Facebook.I know I miss a lot of designs,by not being on,and I knowI am a dying breed,by not joining."Everybody" is on-LOL
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by meganne 18 Mar 2014
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Hang in there Toogie, we all have days like this, seems they are unavoidable at times, but if you can just get through the day, everything will be better tomorrow. Until then you have a good rant and even a cry if it helps, because sometimes we just need to get it all out.
As the song says.... Some days are diamonds, some days are stone, thankfully the diamond days out number the stone days.
Sending hugs n love, Meg
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by toogie 19 Mar 2014
Recieving with arms open...I have had a better day,thank you.
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by rachap 18 Mar 2014
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I'm not seeing this until today, sorry you had one of those days-and those days seem like they will never end. Hope today is better.

ps-obviously you forgot to wear green on Mon!!!
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by toogie 19 Mar 2014
Thank you,today was better.