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I could use some prayers. I have a tenant giving me a very hard time I am under a lot of stress and I have several friends dying of cancer I am trying to help. The tenant is being so unreasonable after we have been so good to her for 3 years. We are having the whole house re wired that has lasted all summer so far . I still have lots of work to do to put all the cupboards back together all the closets and food closet. We have many holes to patch and I really do not need another problem from this unreasonable person. I have been going from early in the morning until late at night. I can not sleep there is so much on my mind. I just want to cry. I am over tired.
So any prayers would help to make this person be reasonable. We are trying to help her and she just turns us off and blames us for her woes and wants us to pay for her problem. Thanks for listening. Suzanne
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Maybe the next time she says or does something unreasonable, simple say you are sorry she is having such a bad day and she is in very good company as there are lots of us out here doing the same thing. Prayers will be for you to gain some R&R. Sometimes all they want to hear and know is that they aren't alone. Inside the forest and can't see the trees. Prayers will also be for her. Can't hurt might help. :-P
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Thank you so much... I have tried this approach several times but she turns you off. Blames me for everthing and wants me to pay for her problem.
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mariagiannina
28 Aug 2014
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I sympathise with you, having gone through the same thing with a tenant last year. She put me and my husband under so much stress, neither of us could sleep. We could not take anymore, so at the end of her lease, we told her we were not renewing her lease, and she would have to find somewhere else, and we sold the house. She had lived there for 6 years and we had had enough. The whole episode left a very bad taste in my mouth.
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I hear you loud and clear. She is putting my house in jeopardy. Thanks for your support! Suzanne
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graceandham
28 Aug 2014
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Been there, got that t shirt, will pray hard! sometimes they don't notice when you're good to them, but they always notice when it's negative.
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I do hope she moves. I am tired of her drama. I have so much stress at the moment I am haniging on by my finger tips. Thanks for the prayers.suzanne
Bad tenant = stress, high blood pressure, stroke. Better to have no tenant normal blood pressure goo health
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Dear Suzanne, I pray that your tenant has a change of heart and that you get some well deserved rest. It must be so difficult to have to put up with other people living in your property who are being unreasonable. I know you are doing your best and just be assured that in the end it will all turn out well. Thinking of you in this situation, love Chris
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Thanks so much! I am praying for this situation to end soon. Suzanne
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Bless your heart Suzanne. I pray for some rest for you and for God's Grace to enfold you and give you wisdom to handle this thorn in your side. She evidently doesn't recognize who her friends are. I pray that God will intervene so you will have the peace in your heart you deserve.Lillian/ AKA lbrow
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THank you for the kind words and prayers . I don't feel so alone. I pray this all resolves soon. Suzanne
Amen!
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I pray things get to where to want them quickly and the problem with the tenant is resolved quickly. Feel Good My Friend!
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Thank you for the prayers I feel I need God right now to help. Suzanne
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shirley124
29 Aug 2014
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I am sorry your tenant is putting you under so much stress. We are tenants ourselves and I would not like to think we were stressing the landlord. He is so good to us and we like to think we are good to him as well. Prayers coming your way. Hugs
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I would love to have tenants like you. I love peace and everyone to get along . I have never been anything but kind and helpful. I treat people like I would like to be treated. I do not have a mean bone in me. Thanks for the prayers. I feel I need God to help me right now. Suzanne
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You know I care and have been praying. You are not alone and you know we love you.
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Thank you sis you are my rock!! HUGS
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You have mine! Try to remember that you have done what is right, you have given as much or more than you possibly could, you have treated her the way that you want to be treated and then, lay it down. You have no control over what she says or does, nor do you want to. Lay it down. Pray that God will take this into His hands. Lay. it. down. Then do not pick it back up. Hugs!
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THank you so much for the advice. I have done all I can and more. Suzanne
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basketkase
29 Aug 2014
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Suzanne, it is so hard to understand why bad things happen to good people, but reading Jerilynn's response is so right on..........I will continue to pray for your peace...you deserve it!
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Thank you I need the prayers for peace. She has stressed me to the point of being sick.I have consulted a lawyer. I need peace in my life. Every prayer helps.. . Yes Jerilynns advice is so right and so are a lot of others. I have to learn to put it down. Suzanne
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Suzanne, when one gets overtired with so much going on at the same time, it is easy to get overwhelmed and depressed! It only uses up what bit of energy you have left to become more stressed! Pull the reins back in on additional stress by reminding yourself constantly that you are gradually getting "your house in order", and normalcy to your life will be restored soon!! If you know you have met your obligations as a landlord, and are not liable for any of her nitpicking issues, don't allow her to bog you down!! Take one day at a time, and one thing at a time! Prayers for rest for you, and strength to resist worrying, while things get back to normal!
Hugs, Angel
Hugs, Angel
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Thank you for the great words! I am overtired and stressed. I do not need her adding to the situation. Thanks so much! Suzanne
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You are in my prayers, leave it all in God's Hands & open your heart to hear what he has to say ~hugs~
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Amen! I believe it! I know God will help me. Thank you! Suzanne
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Dear Suzanne, you are in my prayers. I just can't understand people can be so mean to good people. Love and big hugs, Yoriko
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thank you so much... I know youhave seen your share of problems too. I don't know why when you treat people so well they get mean to you and take things out on you. Thank you for your prayers.Suzanne
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i will pray also for you Suzanne
that you can have some rest
some times live is to hard
try to sleep ok and try to make your brain empty
its the only way i think
hugs Sonja aka queen hunt
that you can have some rest
some times live is to hard
try to sleep ok and try to make your brain empty
its the only way i think
hugs Sonja aka queen hunt
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Thank you Sonja.. I know you have your own things to deal with. I appreciate your prayers and I pray for you too. Suzanne
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prayers for you , a lot of people do respect you for all you do!
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Thank you! So much appreciated!! Suzanne